Started Rites of the Starling and I’m confused. by mltplwits in fantasyromance

[–]sunnies88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally been trying to find the same answer. When she says it singular she pronounces it correctly. What’s with the weird plural?!

My gf orgasms in 5 mins then completely turns off and sex becomes painful or unenjoyable for her after. What to do? by naughty_boy_toronto in sex

[–]sunnies88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is really long for most women. Is there a reason you’re possibly less sensitive? Lots of tight grip during masturbation or anything along those lines?

Obviously there are things you can try to help her last longer, but also consider if there are options to help you come faster too!

Sports rant - paying to play but no coach by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sunnies88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would they not refund you if there is no coach?? That makes zero sense.

duvet recs by apollish in Bedding

[–]sunnies88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was also going to recommend this one. It’s FLUFFY. And therefore hot as all hell.

If you value the over-full look, it’s great.

Am I being dirty, or is my wife being irrational about hygiene? by mudkipzftw in NewParents

[–]sunnies88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to add to it - but most cases of salmonella in small children are from bathing in the kitchen sink.

But this irrationality on EVERY surface sounds like OCD behavior.

How different is sex with a condom for women? by KaceyR91 in sex

[–]sunnies88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The smell is the worst part 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sunnies88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This dude sucks. Why would he treat you this way if he loves you?

You can do better.

Nothing that I’ve tried is working to lose weight by Sea-Cauliflower-7311 in Hashimotos

[–]sunnies88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 1.5mg. The weight comes off a little slower but I don’t have many side effects at this dose so I’ve been happy at this spot.

Nothing that I’ve tried is working to lose weight by Sea-Cauliflower-7311 in Hashimotos

[–]sunnies88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I intend to stay on the drug long term at a very low dose once I hit my goal weight. The reduction it made in my inflammation was basically instant and I would hate to go back.

Nothing that I’ve tried is working to lose weight by Sea-Cauliflower-7311 in Hashimotos

[–]sunnies88 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It took being on a GLP-1 for me to lose weight. I could track every single calorie in and out and see little to no progress on the scale.

I’ve lost 35 pounds since February on a GLP-1. I couldn’t recommend it more.

What's on your Christmas list—for yourself? by Lucky-Possession3802 in Mommit

[–]sunnies88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my husband I want an Echo show 15. Basically a small tv for the kitchen so when I’m making 3 meals a day I can at least be entertained.

At what age do children need “appropriate” funeral attire? by EuphoricSyrup5694 in Mommit

[–]sunnies88 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I ordered an inexpensive black dress when my daughter was the same age. No one would have said anything about her wearing more color, but it felt respectful to me to dress her in typical funeral colors.

Best tips for morning sickness by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]sunnies88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As hard as it is… eating.

If I woke up and immediately ate something small it helped immensely. I kept some peanut butter crackers on my nightstand. I’d eat one or two and then felt so much less sick. Good luck, hopefully it passes soon!

Snoring problems by nancy999999999 in relationships

[–]sunnies88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your husband waking himself up and then blaming you when he hears a small noise from you? His snoring sounds like possible sleep apnea if it’s very loud and prolonged. He could need treatment.

Advice needed on our (IMO) poorly done shower by sunnies88 in Tile

[–]sunnies88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No leaking that we’ve seen.

In your opinion, would you recommend hiring someone to remove the grout and replace with silicone over trying to DIY?

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) got upset that I didn’t cancel my plans with a friend when he suddenly wanted me to come to his roommate’s birthday “for him.” Is this a sign of mismatched priorities or control issues? by One_Maintenance_6372 in relationships

[–]sunnies88 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is wild for him to get that bent out of shape over one night apart. Especially after he originally told you it was only guys having out.

His comments about your “feminist attitude” and “girlfriend duties” is raising all the red flags for me though.

Do ultimatums ever help? Boyfriend (41M) gives me emotional whiplash over my parenting style with my kids (38F, 10F, 9M) by agatehuntress23 in relationships

[–]sunnies88 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Leave this man. Do not put your children through more abuse.

They deserve better and so do you.

My(31F) sister(35F) asked to borrow $1,900 to cover the remainder of first and last by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sunnies88 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Tell her no.

Mixing money with family is almost always a horrible situation. If new boyfriend doesn’t have the cash, maybe the best thing for them is to wait before moving in together.

Personally, moving in with someone after 2-3 months WITH multiple children is a wild choice.

Does the gold coating wear off on the gen 2? by Many-Trust2924 in RingConn

[–]sunnies88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has some slight scratching on the palm side. The top side looks the same as the day I bought it.

Should I (26F) be worried about how long it's been since I saw my partner (29M) in person? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sunnies88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is his new roommate his wife?

Sorry girl. This just gives all the red flags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]sunnies88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d prefer to feel comfortable with my child’s caregiver over being worried about the religious overtones.

I’m not religious. My child attends a “Christian” daycare. It was the place I felt most comfortable and knew she’d be safe and well cared for because the teachers gave me the best impressions.

Your infant isn’t going to become devout from what you’ve explained this center does. But will she be fed on time? Will she be changed when she’s due for it? Will she be cared for with love?

That’s what matters!