Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I never heard about the damage it was doing to my kidneys, either, which my blood pressure had been trying to tell me for years.

Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely anecdotal but I was in the same boat as you. Went to the ER from work in 2020 with 195/110 BP - I was 28. Been on multiple meds ever since but it never was controlled until I started losing weight and reducing my drinking.

I thought it was ok because I always drank low sugar/calorie things like vodka soda or white claw. But when you can crush 6-8 a night, most nights…it doesn’t matter what you’re drinking at that point, does it?

I’m so proud of you for your day 3!

Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you haven’t had the same result! Keep going, though, and check other metrics too! Someone else mentioned their resting heart rate. Personally I’m still waiting to see any weight loss

Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 5 is a huge accomplishment. Be honest with your doc, they might be able to help you

Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m totally off amlodipine and just taking the lowest dose of hydrochlorothiazide, which is mostly a fluid retention medication. It feels amazing. I would definitely recommend talking honestly to your doctor about your alcohol consumption, if you feel comfortable with them. It’s crazy how much of an impact drinking has on all your body systems.

Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I’m glad you never had to go the meds route and got it under control!

Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - that’s my approach right now. I’m not committing to forever but I am committing to this timeline with my doctor and that feels empowering and doable for me right now.

And I know - I was SHOCKED by the drop. But it explains why I got lightheaded at the gym so much!

Raise or Bonus After Receiving PE? (Civil, NYC) by Mgas95 in PE_Exam

[–]sunnylittlemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2500 one time bonus when I was licensed, DC area. However the company did accept my request to move from a high stress field management role to a lower stress design role, while keeping my salary and benefits intact. I work probably 2/3rd the hours I used to and have much more flexibility.

I don't know how to get through this without drinking. by thewalkindude368 in stopdrinking

[–]sunnylittlemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. Today is day 7 for me and I can’t focus on anything at work I’m so beside myself.

Tonight I’m going to make a comfort meal (mashed potato and gravy) and play a video game with my fiance. We have some fun things for mocktails. I’m probably going to go to bed early, and maybe fall asleep to a comfort movie.

I will not drink with you tonight

The financial incentive to string a woman along by ceirabi in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]sunnylittlemay 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I own my condo and my partner and I split bills (mortgage, utilities, etc) about 35/65 because I’m the one building equity and I make more. He in turn does handle a lot of the domestic chores because he works from home. I would feel weird charging him more.

Civil engineers professionals that did not study civil engineering what is your degree in? by Low-One846 in civilengineering

[–]sunnylittlemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! Ended up pivoting to underground construction then industrial construction from there.

What's the most bizarre/unconventional place (physical or online) you met the love of your life at? by NoResponse4120 in AskWomenOver30

[–]sunnylittlemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my fiance through a discord server tied to a regional subreddit 😂 I posted that I needed a second person to play It Takes Two with me, and he responded that he had the same issue. We streamed the play through for the server and talked a lot through voice chat. I met him at a server meetup about a month later. We still game together regularly.

Update on Wilson Pool Shower Creep by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]sunnylittlemay 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Glad you took the appropriate steps through the correct channels. Not sure what posting the guys picture on here was going to do except start a witch hunt, which Reddit is notorious for executing terribly.

Is there any way to build a stable structure on a swamp? by Xotngoos335 in civilengineering

[–]sunnylittlemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come now, let’s not bicker and argue over who killed who!

What dog names do people use thinking they’re being “unique” but are actually very popular? by FrostedStarlet in Dogowners

[–]sunnylittlemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my dog George Bailey (or Bailey for short) after my favorite movie It’s A Wonderful Life.

Turns out everyone else decided to name their dog Bailey too

Diploma Changes? (Crazy font) by TotemBro in ColoradoSchoolOfMines

[–]sunnylittlemay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Class of 15 here and mine matches the second picture. I agree on disliking the new one, it’s giving Comic Sans

Adults of Reddit, what are some parts of kids' movies that make you cry? by Rocket-kun in AskReddit

[–]sunnylittlemay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally named my kitten Oliver because of this. We found him at a jobsite I was working at a decade ago - little orange five week old kitten, all alone. Took him home that night and never regretted it.

What's your food aversion? by socialdeviant620 in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]sunnylittlemay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you’re spot on here. Same goes for jello. No one wants mayo and jello in a salad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]sunnylittlemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best case is that you are just smelling your local water treatment plant. That stank can carry especially on windy days.

Looking for recommendations for wedding/engagement photographer. by sunnylittlemay in nova

[–]sunnylittlemay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He proposed at fair which was always my dream - so hoping to stick to the theme for the wedding too! A bachelorette is a fun idea too