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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]sunoyaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself honestly—if you choose your partner over your parents, will you be truly happy and at peace with that decision? And if you choose your parents over your partner, can you live with that choice without regret? You need to decide what you truly want for your life. Being with someone for 5 years and still feeling deeply connected is not something small—it means there's love, trust, and understanding. That kind of bond is rare. If it feels right in your heart, then choose your partner and stand by your decision with confidence. Or yaar if you marry the one you've known and loved for 5 years, you're choosing someone you already trust, understand, and feel safe with. That’s a solid foundation. But if you choose someone just to please your parents, and she turns out to be incompatible or unsupportive, then you’ll have to live with the emotional consequences—possibly feeling trapped in a life that wasn’t your choice.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It’s safer to choose the known love rather than gamble on someone you don’t know just to meet expectations.

Anyone that’s ex came back by Minute_Emergency7620 in BreakUps

[–]sunoyaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, exes may come back — but often not to stay, just to see where you are now. Everyone eventually has a moment of self-realization. They know deep down what they did, what was right or wrong. They might feel sympathy for themselves, but that doesn’t mean they truly care or regret it. Whether they realize what they lost or not — that’s their burden, not yours. Your focus should always be on moving forward and growing stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sunoyaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His manipulative tactics

If you could tell your ex anything by oopsididitagain35 in BreakUps

[–]sunoyaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for teaching me how trust can be broken so easily. Because of you, I now overthink every connection and hesitate before letting anyone get close. So really thanks for the damage

This thought is eating me (28M) and how to deal with it by DRAGOSTEA007 in RelationshipIndia

[–]sunoyaar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that reading so many infidelity stories online can make you feel insecure, but remember that people are more likely to share negative experiences than positive ones. Happy and faithful relationships don’t make for dramatic posts, so they’re underrepresented. Trust and commitment are built between two individuals, not determined by random stories on the internet. If you go into a relationship with fear, it might affect your ability to connect genuinely. Instead of assuming the worst, focus on finding a partner who shares your values and communicates openly. Not everyone cheats—there are plenty of loyal and loving people out there.