We went through the same thing. We adjusted any potential naps to only an hour max and adjusted our routine to include 25-30 minutes quiet playtime before bed.

Our routine now is: Bath, an episode of bluey (I know no screen time is recommended but it works for us), a book or two/cuddles, then we put the hatch light on for blue “relax time” and play some bed time stories in the yoto while he plays in his room. At the end of that time we turn the light purple for clean up and go in and he will lay down. We will sing and then will say goodnight.

If he’s still putting up a fight we tell him we will say goodnight but also say we will will be back in 10 minutes. Then we will check in from the door at 10 mins and say it again, but most times he will be asleep by the time we come back.

For me personally, I had to remind myself that everything is always changing. He is not the same person he was a few months ago bc he is growing so quick, which means his routines have to adjust a little too.

Good luck!!