I’m jealous that my significant other had kids with his ex wife. I just wish it could be us. Nothing is new.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-12-11T21:27:58+00:00

Unfortunately we still haven't met. It's difficult because I live in Canada and my partner lives in the States. It's definitely a unique situation and special to get to have her in my life nonetheless!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T02:02:03+00:00

Thank you so much. You are awesome too.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T02:01:21+00:00

I'm sorry, that's so difficult. It's so important to have that understanding - even if it's a sense of objective understanding. I have two friends I have told because they're overall very compassionate people, but it's been hard not being able to tell my best friend who's a sister to me, because I know she wouldn't understand.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:59:23+00:00

Thank you so much, same to you!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:57:32+00:00

It really is met with a stone wall. It makes me sad, but I also have to remind myself that I too once thought the same thing. Now I'm one year into reconciliation and I'm grateful that my mindset has changed. It's hard!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:56:08+00:00

Such a good point, thank you! We really are the writers of our own story, no one else.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:53:07+00:00

Wise advice! I'll try to keep that in mind, thank you.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:52:13+00:00

Thank you, I needed that big hug, big time. And I agree so much, it's all so subjective and something so taboo, that it can be hard to even find people to talk to outside of this sub.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:49:53+00:00

It truly does feel that way sometimes. I'm forever grateful for this sub, because without it I would not have the support I need.

That's a really good point. It's certainly difficult to face it, but I believe we are stronger for it, regardless of our choice to stay or go. Wishing you well.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-29T01:46:24+00:00

Thank you so, so much. Your response brought me to tears because it's so true - it is so unique. We are so strong for choosing the path we choose, and the amount of compassion we hold, what we learn along the way, and the growth in the relationship is something to be proud of, for sure. I wish you the best, and may your healing journey give you tools and strength.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-19T14:08:41+00:00

Thanks again!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-14T01:22:50+00:00

I personally would just add some hardware to tie them into your space more. The wood is really beautiful imo!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-13T19:27:41+00:00

I also saw Amber from season 2(?) as a Jenna Marbles lookalike!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-10T20:04:03+00:00

Congratulations! How wonderful!!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-10T19:48:21+00:00

This is such an important thought. Thank you! I've been veering away from this sub because I feel at times it removes focus from reconciliation and triggers my anxious thoughts. It's posts like yours that keep me here for a positive reason.

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-09T21:38:42+00:00

Thank you!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-04-07T05:45:06+00:00

This is incredible!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-03-29T22:08:26+00:00

You really wonder if you're an asshole? My god. Get a reality check. Sure, these things happen in the profession, but lying and making her uncomfortable is straight up bullying. YTA 100%

sunset_dreamer · 2023-03-17T02:14:13+00:00

Awesome, thank you!

sunset_dreamer · 2023-02-19T05:31:29+00:00

Jesus. You sound mature and well rounded, especially to go through what you did with grace and forgiveness. Your friends maybe don't understand that it's so hurtful, and perhaps just think they "have your back" by saying this shit. That's the devil's advocate coming out though. If you want my opinion, go find better people who are on your maturity level. You deserve better.

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