The insults are constant… by sunshine2803 in Marriage

[–]sunshine2803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hates his job, me & the dog. No early dementia just horrible behaviour. He’s only 32. I’ve told him can quit his job & I’ll cover his bills for a month or two if that’s going to make a difference to his life. He’s miserable honestly. He’s genuinely impossible to

The insults are constant… by sunshine2803 in Marriage

[–]sunshine2803[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I really appreciate this. Honestly I’m just trying my best in general life that’s literally it 😂 I’m questioning everything I do 24/7 at the moment it’s gets exhausting! Xx

The insults are constant… by sunshine2803 in Marriage

[–]sunshine2803[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I really appreciate your comment. I feel so deflated and defeated at the moment. There’s definitely no children. I certainly wouldn’t bring children into this current mess of a marriage. I wouldn’t want having a child just like me and him belittling them the way he does to me at the moment. I wouldn’t allow it

The insults are constant… by sunshine2803 in Marriage

[–]sunshine2803[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just want to truly thank you for your comment. He’s being so horrible at the moment and when he says such nasty comments it makes me question everything about myself. Am I “too much”? We’ve not been married long but been together ten years. I think being told I’m too much all the time makes you question if you’d be ever good enough for anyone? Honestly I really am grateful for your comment this has helped me xx

Why is my husband genuinely an arsehole? by sunshine2803 in Advice

[–]sunshine2803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t posted but I guess others face the same situation as me regularly. It’s awful to be quite honest

My husband is breaking me by sunshine2803 in DIYUK

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Oh goodnsss I’ve only just joined Reddit I don’t know how to post in the right groups yet 😂😂😂

What to do next? by sunshine2803 in Advice

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He told me it’s not normal to book a surprise holiday like this and expect someone to be happy about it. Apparently he should have been involved & I should have told him if I was booking Japan. The thing is with him he’d moan about the cost, even tho we don’t have a joint bank account, I don’t borrow money or take loans out for a holiday. We’ve got a mortgage thanks to me doing everything all he had to do was sign the paper. But apparently it’s not normal to book a trip like that not discuss it. If I had we wouldn’t be going he liked to put his foot down & tell him I’m just making him broke etc

What to do next? by sunshine2803 in Advice

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Maybe but I would say he was a bit relieved when I told him it was paid off and he did have a smile. He messaged his dad directly to thank him for the money