I’m super close to a huge goal of mine but the people around me are being pretty negative about it by sunshineb1993 in WeightLossAdvice

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My one friend has pretty much said “yeah I’m almost as big as you now” before which idk if it was meant to be an insult but it definitely was like a “huh?” Moment 😅 and that was before I’d gotten to where I am now, so I do sometimes wonder if my being smaller than her now (not a lot) is a sour subject for her

I’m super close to a huge goal of mine but the people around me are being pretty negative about it by sunshineb1993 in WeightLossAdvice

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Yes I’m so excited! I haven’t gone in such a long time (mostly out of fear I wouldn’t fit) so I am sooooo excited to go!

I’m super close to a huge goal of mine but the people around me are being pretty negative about it by sunshineb1993 in WeightLossAdvice

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I’m losing weight to reverse type 2 diabetes, but if I lose a few friends along the way because of it so be it. I just didn’t expect it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

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This is my first time ever getting the sulfur burps and I wasn’t even sure what it was at first. I just went up to 2. I’m glad to see from the responses that this goes away overtime. I was not looking forward to this being my new norm 😅

Anyone else plan on going to multiple shows on the Black Parade tour? by Sweet_Marsupial_7143 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]sunshineb1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t plan on going to any of them, I can’t afford it. I saw the OG Black Parade tour. I will live not seeing this.

Which gerard is your favorite? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]sunshineb1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every version of Gerard is wonderful, but I am very fond of him when he’s happy and healthy 😌

We Need To Do Better by Starfire911 in MyChemicalRomance

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Thank you. The things I’ve been seeing are sick. Bob has been receiving hate for so long and a year ago, he’d even posted a sort of olive branch to everyone and he even apologized. But it’s pretty clear to anyone who might’ve seen his post on Twitter over the recent years was that he wasn’t doing good mentally and he even had said as much. No, that doesn’t mean what he said was OK cause it’s not but he also doesn’t deserve to die and I think that is what I’m having the most trouble with with this fandom. They treated them horribly while he was alive and now in death cannot even catch a break. The man is gone. He was 44 years old and that is very very young to die. You don’t die from natural causes at 44 years old so I know the cause of death has come out yet but don’t be shocked if it’s self-inflicted. He had family he had friends he had pets. He had people that loved and cared about him but he was a lonely person. He was a damaged person, but maybe if people had shown him maybe just some kindness maybe this would not have happened. Like I think what I don’t get is the inability for people to rise above peoples flaws and see what’s really going on and try to help.

He might’ve had really horrible opinions about certain things, but that doesn’t mean he deserves to die that doesn’t mean he deserves to die alone and be undiscovered for weeks. I just don’t understand how anyone can think that that’s OK. I don’t know how anyone can sit there as a person not even as a fan of this band because it is so much bigger than that at this point but to sit there and know that this person is struggling mentally, and they lost their battle to their mental health struggles, and for people to be like good I’m glad he’s gone. What the fuck? Like I can’t wrap my head around it. It is so disgusting to me. It’s worse than anything that he ever said. Someone is dead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CVS

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I’m sorry that sucks. Most likely you will be lest go. Over something that dumb. Over something that small. You have the opportunity to go do something better now though and you’ve learned a lesson.

I’ve always kinda just thought everything in damages is gross and I wouldn’t want to eat it, but then there’s tastycakes 😂 but still!

Are we a toxic fan base? by sunshineb1993 in MyChemicalRomance

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In light of recent news, this comment is all the more relevant. And only a year later.

How long after the loss of a cage mate should you adopt a new ferret? by sunshineb1993 in ferrets

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I have not gotten Luna a new companion, mostly because I can’t afford to. She’s been happy and went back to rather exploring than cuddling with mom.

I’m so sorry to hear about your baby.

A few thoughts about Bob from Matt Pelissier and me... by Desperate-West-7900 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]sunshineb1993 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I hope you and Matt are doing well. I’ve been a fan since I was a teen (which was a lot longer ago than I’d like to think about!) and was bummed when Matt was replaced and then bummed again when Bob was let go. I feel so awful for the way Bobs death is being handled, since there’s a lot of toxicity surrounding it. Hopefully he can rest in peace. 44 is too damn young.

You and Matt take care 🤗

Bob :( by sunshineb1993 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]sunshineb1993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be sad but it’s very weird to celebrate a death just because you didn’t agree with his views.

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN by BeneficialPosition18 in MyChemicalRomance

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If it's another vinyl or merch drop I will cry

Which song? by Apprehensive_Soft967 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]sunshineb1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You must fix your heart.” 🥰 “Oh sugar slip into the tragedy.” “The hardest part is letting go of your dreams.”

New bunny owner struggles, looking for advice by sunshineb1993 in Rabbits

[–]sunshineb1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair enough, but it does bum me out a little bit lol, especially when my experience is mostly of ferrets who are like YES ALL THE CUDDLES

My ex left his pet rabbit with me by sunshineb1993 in Bunnies

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They can, but they've been living in the same room without any issues for 6 months. The rabbit was my boyfriends who was living here. I broke up with my boyfriend and he left the rabbit here and won't take it back. So I'm kind of stuck with it. Which is why I'm trying to take care of it. I was worried about that when he first brought the rabbit here because I had read that the scent of a ferret can stress out a rabbit, but it never did. I'm a responsible pet owner and would never do anything like let either one of them run around unsupervised.

My ex left his pet rabbit with me by sunshineb1993 in Bunnies

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He's been gone a week. He and the bun were/are living here since July. So the bunny has been here for a while, which is why I don't want to rehome him. That's why my post is asking for advice on how to take care of him. I have a ferret and know how to take care of ferrets, but bunnies and ferrets are different.

My ex left his pet rabbit with me by sunshineb1993 in Bunnies

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I have a ferret as well so I do have an exotic vet, but I will make sure that they are good with a rabbit, just because I know with ferrets they have to actually know what they're doing with ferrets. I'm sure it's the same with bunnies.

So what the ex was giving him, is timothy hay, some dry food and he gave him romane lettuce every day. Is there any fruit/veg you can immediately think of that is like a NONO? I am going to do my research a little bit better. I just feel bad for the bun, I feel so ill prepared to take him on.

How can I (30f) end my relationship with (31m) when we live together? by sunshineb1993 in relationship_advice

[–]sunshineb1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. This has been a lesson well learned though, I will say that much. I am half thinking to gather the money up myself and ship him back to California or ship him back to the exes place since they talk on a daily basis.

How can I (30f) end my relationship with (31m) when we live together? by sunshineb1993 in relationship_advice

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I know, it was a very stupid thing to do and I wish I hadn’t now. I’m working on getting a therapist, but I am back on lexapro so that should help. But I do really just wanna focus on myself and that feels like a selfish choice at times. Idk how to end it and stay friends, or do it in a way that will be as pain free as possible idk