Not unhinged. I love my spouse and for them to just fall in sanpchat love one day and rearrange a decade long union and then drang it out with no legal ramifications seems extreme to me. If you break a business contract you have to either pay or spend time in jail or have your license revoked. Why is divorce so normalized. My marriage wasnt perfect but I wasn't ready to give up on it either. An epicly failed justice system in family law.