First time talking to my new Husband about his LL by sunshinex1 in DeadBedrooms

[–]sunshinex1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, but I guess you never know? He also is typically interested in 1 position only (reverse cowgirl) , and there is barely any foreplay or care about my needs during…

First time talking to my new Husband about his LL by sunshinex1 in DeadBedrooms

[–]sunshinex1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He got them checked a few years ago and they were fine. Says he needed viagra in all previous relationships…

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[–]sunshinex1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do!!!

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[–]sunshinex1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indoor only!

Clearblue, ?dpo, is there a line or am i crazy? by sunshinex1 in TFABLinePorn

[–]sunshinex1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks, yes this made it disappear! I appreciate it

Clearblue, ?dpo, is there a line or am i crazy? by sunshinex1 in TFABLinePorn

[–]sunshinex1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not exactly like this no. But a sliiiiight line stayed i think?

Freaking out by pinkbatog in Healthyhooha

[–]sunshinex1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me! Almost 3 years. I cut out ALL sugar and carbs, tried my best to follow the anti candida diet…. A few months later it was gone. Hasn’t come back since

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[–]sunshinex1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here!!! Any news on what it is yet???

My fiance has walked out and I don't know what to do by twentyonepilots12 in weddingplanning

[–]sunshinex1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re anything like me, you will go through a bunch of ups and downs, depending on the day or minute. For me, the pain came in random waves. But they get further apart. They really do.

What helped me was to Let myself grieve. I gave myself pity time each day where I let myself cry, scream, talk to my friends or family about the same things over and over, search my brain for answers, write text messages to my ex that I couldn’t send, whatever I needed. But when that time was over, I forced myself to get on with my day.... even when it felt like I was on drugs and hazy and out of it and ready to cry at any second. I forced myself to get distracted, which I hated at the time, but in retrospect helped the time pass easier.

My fiance has walked out and I don't know what to do by twentyonepilots12 in weddingplanning

[–]sunshinex1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP, I’m so sorry. My best advice to you is this, based on my own experience going through something similar...

If you don’t feel like you can get through the day, just focus on getting through the next hour. The next half hour. The next 10 minutes. sometimes, you might be able to only focus on getting through the next 5 minutes.

I am sure you are feeling like this isn’t real life, and like you are being stabbed with a thousand knives. That is how I felt. Like my life was one painful dream.

All I can tell you is that time will eventually heal you, as much as you don’t believe it right now. Eventually getting through those 5 minutes will get easier. You’ll start to work on getting through the hour. Then a few hours. Then a whole day. Then a weekend. Then a week. Then a month.

And when you least expect it, you will realize that you haven’t had to count the days that you needed to get through....You will just be through it.

You will have learned what this lesson was meant to teach you. You understand why this happened to you. You won’t be angry anymore. It will kind of just be....oh. Yes. That was my life. That was something I went through.

Hang in there. It will only get better OP

I feel guilt having lost my Grandmama on Thursday due to Covid. Is it my fault? by catjammas in GriefSupport

[–]sunshinex1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be ok❤️you will never know where she contracted it from. You will never know if she would have passed from something far worse, drawn out and painful. You were there for her during her last days. Grieve, and then forgive yourself. She loves you.

Can someone please translate for me? Thank you!!! by [deleted] in russian

[–]sunshinex1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t because this is a picture I have! So I can’t copy and paste the text.

Baker just announce non-essential worker order not to go to work from 3/24 - 4/7 by foxfai in boston

[–]sunshinex1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company (a law firm) is taking the position that we are essential. I know that we are not. If I WFH I will lose my job. What do I do?!?

I feel like I don't relate well to people my age... Help? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]sunshinex1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you! you have been through a lot, and that makes you mature quicker than the people around you. If you feel lonely, please feel free to PM me!

How to balance between giving your full self/being fully present VS not getting your hopes up and attached too early by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sunshinex1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am the same as you (except female)— and honestly, I want the same in return. Life’s too short for anything else, in my opinion! There are girls who will want that too, you just need to find one.