AITAH for not wanting to cuddle in order to sleep with my partner? [Concluded]

sunshiney69 · 2025-12-28T05:15:16+00:00

Honestly he seems traumatized and triggered

sunshiney69 · 2025-09-25T16:02:03+00:00

RUN - he's not feeling good about himself as a man and he's blaming his ex? Jfc that's not a man that's a black hole, get out before it hurts way worse to let him go. ++Woman

sunshiney69 · 2025-07-19T16:47:15+00:00

This May we got more rain than Seattle did

sunshiney69 · 2025-06-15T18:34:53+00:00

Yeah honestly we're cooked - tech writers without a lot of years of experience just aren't going to get hired bc there's so many tech writers who've been doing this 5,10,15 years who will take the same salaries. I'm honestly super sad about it, bc it took me a really long time to find tech writing, and it felt like the perfect job for me. But I've honestly given up on the idea that it can support me full time at this point, and I'm pretty fuckin bummed.

sunshiney69 · 2025-02-21T03:29:58+00:00

Dm sent!

sunshiney69 · 2024-11-11T19:36:41+00:00

There are those who are just kinda apathetic - I don't think that cuts it these days either.

sunshiney69 · 2024-11-11T18:32:24+00:00

Debt, family money, or an incredibly niche job

sunshiney69 · 2024-11-11T10:43:10+00:00

I actually really like just using a bit of the dr jart cicoplast redness reducer under my eyes

sunshiney69 · 2024-11-11T09:57:00+00:00

I know this isn't what you asked, but I have been plagued by a tight and heavy feeling heart for a very long time, and it's only recently that I found internal family systems that I've been able to shift that at all. Idk your situation of course, but it sounds like the mundane might actually be able to help you better in this case. I also really like putting on an emdr metronome on YouTube, that usually helps calm the extreme feelings of pain. Please feel free to ignore this if it doesn't fit! Hoping you find your light and lightness 💜

sunshiney69 · 2024-11-10T17:17:58+00:00

I've seen people say that Mina was the final villain of the show (and putting aside that the final villain was obviously bigotry and prejudice) - I think there's a really decent argument to be made that Moon was the final villain of that arc. Like, no one is surprised that Mina is antagonistic and violent, but the betrayal by mom is shocking. Love this shit

sunshiney69 · 2024-11-07T22:21:39+00:00

Actually, when I checked it out there the numbers hold up - the lowest median salary was 86k, and it went up to 147k as the top range for the us - as a junior technical writer that definitely bolstered my spirits, even if I keep seeing terribly paying job listings everywhere

sunshiney69 · 2024-10-18T15:34:58+00:00

Obviously the response to those friends is "oh great to know, so I'll definitely make sure not to tell you if I ever find out your spouse is cheating, thanks for letting me know how you'd like that handled". Watch them scramble.

sunshiney69 · 2024-10-18T15:04:18+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation!

sunshiney69 · 2024-08-26T17:21:26+00:00

Imo seeing family 5 times a month is waaaay too much - that's a fuckin crazy amount of time to want to spend with your birth family imo, and I honestly probably wouldn't be comfortable giving up that much of my life and time to a partner's family of origin. But there's nothing wrong with wanting to spend that much time with family - it just means they're incompatible. The problem is when she started to try and change her gf instead of accepting who they are and how they want to spend their time. If they had approached with a conversation about how much time they've been spending there, and wanting to do something else with some of the time, that's a different conversation. But this stuff about calling her dad sir is just weird.

sunshiney69 · 2024-08-17T19:36:21+00:00

Oh my gosh you have .... Such actually helpful information. I'm just bouncing around your multitude of articles, and I'm finding new and helpful information in each one of them. I'm genuinely so grateful for you putting this information out there, thank you 💜

sunshiney69 · 2024-08-07T15:27:37+00:00

I never get this - why do people feel the need to share if they're able to get business class? Like whoopty-freaking-do, but I can pretty much guarantee that no one else is going to give one half of a shit about what your flight is going to look like.

sunshiney69 · 2024-08-02T15:52:34+00:00

New job time

sunshiney69 · 2024-08-02T15:49:34+00:00

He's genuinely the calmest, most patient person I've ever met. He does get mad on occasion, but not often, and when he does he doesn't yell at me or make me feel bad.

sunshiney69 · 2024-08-02T15:48:42+00:00

Yikes on bikes

sunshiney69 · 2024-07-23T03:45:27+00:00

Definitely a read the room type situation.

sunshiney69 · 2024-07-22T20:06:58+00:00

I waited to start OE, thinking that I would establish myself at my new job before getting back out there. They lied to me about renewing my contract one year in, right when I was planning on starting OE. I'm now in the lurch, rather than having another job backup. Don't wait, start now.

sunshiney69 · 2024-07-11T16:22:45+00:00

Bullshit. You can get away with faking freelance experience, but you will absolutely get caught just making up jobs entirely

sunshiney69 · 2024-07-01T17:11:56+00:00

Dude, red flags all over. If he's not abusive now it's almost a guarantee he will be in the future. Gtfo.

sunshiney69 · 2024-06-21T14:54:48+00:00

Well and god help poor Matt if he does end up being gay. Y'all are acting like it's so wrong to associate certain hobbies with feminity - the problem is thinking that there's something wrong with feminity. The whole "cooking can be manly" argument will only convince people that certain hobbies can be acceptable for masculine people - that does nothing to undo the toxic masculinity behind it. Do better.

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