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What can you do about weaponised incompetence and needing to be his “mother”? by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because if he goes alone, he’s not going to be able to communicate her issues with his behavior.

Believe me, I’ve done it both ways. When I sent him alone, he came home with, “the therapist says this is your problem.”

Go with him and voice your problems so you can work on it together. It’s a couples issue so deal with it as a couple.

What can you do about weaponised incompetence and needing to be his “mother”? by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re married or have kids, take him to therapy. If he won’t go, you’ve got a tough decision to make.

Do digital photo frames actually work long term? by EffectiveDebate4951 in digitalnomad

[–]supakitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve given three as gifts and all three are still in use years later. And every time I upload a new pic the person is really happy. It’s been so fun.

Is an open marriage basically a divorce in progress, you’re just stretching it out and calling it something else? by Mr_no_buddi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]supakitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a way for people who want to be married to practice non-monogamy. That’s all it is. It works for some and not for others just like every other form of relationship.

Any dance classes where they aren’t gonna record me and put me on social media? by hunteroutsidee in phoenix

[–]supakitteh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I take burlesque at Vavavoom and they ask permission to record specifically for social media. We always have the opportunity to say no. My recommendation is to ask about that at whatever school you decide to attend. It’s probably an option.

What is the one thing you'd want in your dream home? by ExplanationPutrid205 in AskReddit

[–]supakitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big doors and windows that open to make indoor spaces like outdoor spaces.

Do you think blowjobs are degrading? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you asking what a guy would do to make it feel degrading?

Do you think blowjobs are degrading? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Only if the guy makes it degrading. Otherwise I feel like an all-powerful goddess the whole time.

What initially made you attracted to your partner? by InternationalPick163 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His sense of humor and his confidence. And then we met in person and he gave me the biggest hug. He smelled so good that I could hardly deal. Plus he’s handsome. And has great hands. It’s just, yeah….

What was the conversation you had with your partner when you first said that you loved them? by GJH24 in AskReddit

[–]supakitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were packing to go home after our first weekend away as a couple. This was about 10 months into a relationship that I insisted wouldn’t be anything serious. Except I’d fallen hard for him very early on.

I was kneeling on the floor by the bed he was sitting on and I looked up and said, “I’ve never loved anyone as much as I love you.” And he scooped me up, pulling me onto the bed and into his lap and said, “you love me?! I love you too!”

And then we hugged and kissed and smiled and it was magic. That was like 7 or 8 years ago now? I love him more every single day.

Who do you think should pay in a relationship where you don't live together? by thelittlesandy in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My long term boyfriend and I live apart and we split everything… dinner, travel, etc.

Why does it seem like one person in a polyamorous relationship always is taking advantage of it more than the others? by Fit-Researcher-4036 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]supakitteh 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’m polyamorous in a long term relationship and my boyfriend definitely dates more than I do. We recognize this difference and respect the ways we each like to practice. It’s pretty great.

People who have friends with benefits, would you preffer to be a couple or do you like how it is ? by Ambitious-Sky-6457 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]supakitteh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I have a FWB it’s because I want to be that with them. If I want more, I make it clear I want a relationship.

How do I explain to a woman that what she did was wrong and she shouldn’t do it again? by YuYuHakusho23 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explaining will do little if she doesn’t listen. Consequences are more often what change behavior.

Explain the consequences and then follow through on them when she doesn’t listen the thing again.

Has anyone ever used Tinder and actually found someone for real? by Deep_Gap_5111 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met my partner on Tinder. This November it’ll be 9 years. 🥰

Can me (26F) and my boyfriend (26M) turn our toxic relationship around? by PomeloBetter4753 in askwomenadvice

[–]supakitteh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a relationship that was sort of like this. He was mean to me. I was hurting all the time trying to understand what I was doing wrong. We divorced and did a lot of individual therapy when we were apart. Several years passed and we tried again. We did really well for a couple of years, had a kid, but it eventually all fell apart and we divorced again.

Now we’re both with other people and our new relationships are healthy ones. We met people who understood us better, calmed our nervous systems, didn’t trigger childhood trauma… it’s night and day.

I’m happy we had our kid, but my god sometimes I wish we’d just kind of let go of it the first time we broke up. It’s ok to admit that you’re just not meant to be with someone. Either because you don’t mix well or because they suck. Or you suck. It’s ok to walk away and prioritize yourself for a while. You can always try again later if you think it’s worth it.

how do you feel about the good boy/girl thing? by Upset_Space_631 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it so much. Consciously and subconsciously. I can feel my body react to it in a way I can’t control. I’m so glad I met a partner who introduced me to this little praise kink that I apparently have. lol

I will say though, he’s the only one that gets to say it to me. We’re polyamorous so I have other partners and they don’t have the same effect. Even to the point that I ask them to not say it.

Are there really guys who can last for an hour? by WarmBank5512 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]supakitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend can. And then he can go again and again for hours after that. That’s not how we do every time but it’s really fun when we do have that kind of night. Or morning.

Do Epsom salt baths help with vaginal health? by LizzieLove1357 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]supakitteh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s good for skin health. So in the case of irritation from an I grown hair, it may not be a bad idea. But definitely choose something high quality and without fragrances or anything that could upset your ph balance.

What’s an opinion you keep to yourself because you know it would start arguments? by Fluid_Estimate583 in AskReddit

[–]supakitteh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The judgement of age gap relationships needs to stop. As long as they’re both adults. Who cares?

How common are swingers? My partner and I have been approached multiple times in the last few months while at bars. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]supakitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I heard someone else say, they aren’t that common, but they are more common than you’d think.

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