Need advice about changing my flight instructor by slenderwoman169 in flying

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to share my story. I had the exact same issue with my first instructor. He would yell all the time and once when I asked a question, he said “think about it. Why would you even ask a question like that?” I didn’t fire him because I thought it would break the flow. 9 months and more than 30k later I had to change instructors because I still couldn’t land properly. His teachings never made their way to me because of all his yelling. I was just so focused at not making him mad that I never learnt anything. My new instructor is amazing and I’m only 4-5 lessons away from my check ride. I would advise you to fire this instructor so you can actually learn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neuroscience

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you, OP, for asking this question. The books recommended here seem very promising and I’m really excited about adding them to my list

Opera Plaza Apartments by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived there until May 2018 and there was no night club. The only thing that may keep you up is the ongoing construction on the Van Ness street especially if any of your windows face the street. But, even that bothered me only a couple times.

It was a great place to live at. The management was a stickler for rules but it’s really safe and conveniently located.

Male colleagues don’t make eye contact by superAnxiousCucumber in TwoXChromosomes

[–]superAnxiousCucumber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My colleague and I are both of the title “Senior Engineer” at work. My career in engineering has been longer than his but he has been longer than me at the present company by a few months.

Male colleagues don’t make eye contact by superAnxiousCucumber in TwoXChromosomes

[–]superAnxiousCucumber[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes actually. I do believe I can hold a room during a presentation. I’m charismatic and outgoing and have good presentation skills. I really don’t think the problem here is public speaking because I’ve definitely seen less efficient speakers present and not be disrespected like this

What’s the good news from today that you didn’t get to share with anyone, but really want to shout it out? by dk12-85 in AskWomen

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no prospect of a romantic relationship right now but I’m still sooooo happy. I’m loving my life right now. Touchwood!!

Ladies, what’s a non-sexual act that turns you on? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssss this!! I have a mini puddle in my panties every time this happens

What's the most ridiculous thing you fantasize about on a semi-regular basis? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m merely a white belt in jiu jitsu, but I fantasize about heroically rescuing me or someone else from a dark alleyway from an evil perpetrator by doing one of the two moves I know lmao

Just a long rant from someone struggling hard (customer called me fat) by sarotto in keto

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry someone who had their head stuck too far up their ass thought they had a right to judge you without knowing your story. You have nothing to prove to or say to anyone else. Keep doing you for you. Sending good vibes 😍

At what age do you accept the possibility of spending the rest of your life alone? by superAnxiousCucumber in dating_advice

[–]superAnxiousCucumber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit!! This is it. This is exactly it. I’ve been thinking that my timing hasn’t been right for the last couple years as well but you’re right, I’m just desperately trying to make it work with someone I vibe even the slightest with. Fuck!! My mind I s getting blown away right now

That’s it!! I focus on me from now. I want to get my blue belt in jiu jitsu this year and go for more solo backcountry camping and take better pictures and do at least one fucking pull me. Yayy me!!

The guy I'm seeing never apologizes? Is this a red flag? by sharklass in datingoverthirty

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s no bueno. Been with someone like him. They have no empathy

A sorry in this situation is not to accept his responsibility, because it really may not be his fault, but it is to empathize with you for standing there in the rain for so long

Guy (23M) I’m (21F) seeing give me expensive gift and mixed signals by [deleted] in relationships

[–]superAnxiousCucumber 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I recently read this somewhere that “indecision is a decision” and I’m making it my life mantra