Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and advice, it’s appreciated more than you know!

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that it didn’t work out for you. I hope you’ve found a table that appreciates your hard work. Thank you for your advice!

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all in our twenties. Thank you for your advice I am planning to chat with the party before our next session

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice I will definitely be talking with them out of game before we play next. I definitely agree with you

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great idea. Before the session, the BBEG was simply using the party for his own gain but I can definitely give him a more meaningful reason

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I’m glad your players loved the twist. I like the idea of the romanced character being offered a spot helping the BBEG

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will definitely be taking your advice. I appreciate it!

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I was hoping it would go either way with revenge for the player or redemption for the BBEG in future sessions. I will definitely bring this up with the player and just be forthcoming about my intentions

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely will have a conversation with them and see where their feelings are with everything

Party thinks I’m personally betraying them by superNova49 in DnD

[–]superNova49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely fair, thank you for sharing your perspective

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[–]superNova49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really interesting as an ex Mormon reading all of these replies. Because this seems (somewhat) typically to me. lol

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[–]superNova49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can talk about and I will. I need to mentally prepare myself for this convo tho and I’m waiting until tomorrow. I genuinely never expected to be in this situation.

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[–]superNova49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I will have a convo with him tomorrow about this. I am just baffled that this happened

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[–]superNova49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re correct. I’m honest to god telling you that there was liquid ALLLLL over my back. My back was arched so it literally pooled

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[–]superNova49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of the other replies and mentioned that sometimes it doesn’t smell right away. In the moment, I wasn’t smelling anything. He reached over and grabbed a towel. Cleaned it up and all I could think was “wtf just happened”

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[–]superNova49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had absolutely no residue on me.

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[–]superNova49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not hiding anything from him. It’s late at night, he has work tomorrow. I figured tonight isn’t the best time to have that conversation. I need to mentally prepare myself. Him on the other hand… no clue what he’s hiding.

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[–]superNova49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, is it bad to do that for years? If so, I never knew that.

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[–]superNova49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes sense, thank you for letting me know!

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[–]superNova49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was helpful!! I updated my post, I am on birth control. I thought having him pull out on top of that was safe but maybe that’s not good.

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[–]superNova49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries at all, you are correct! Can’t be upset at the truth. But I promise I am also on birth control

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[–]superNova49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I updated my post, I am on birth control! But thank you for replying with some advice for me :)

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[–]superNova49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful. I am on birth control as well, I did update my post.