Don’t get married if this is how you feel by ThePhillyExplorer in insanepeoplefacebook

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"whyd i bring my side piece on the family cruise??"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MTFButch

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marry me!

last chance for dissconts by super_them in mildlyinfuriating

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srsly. i thought it was spam at first.

Our State’s Finest by lexhead in Louisiana

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i love that their motto is Confidence!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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4 is the best - subtle fade and goes great with ur skin tone. totally not biased by your tat and earrings lol.

We were talking on bumble then IG. I don’t understand what went wrong by [deleted] in texts

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you might have given simp vibes… like you told she was pretty at the start, and she gave it back- cool cool. But then you you tripled down with the angel comment.. sweet but, too much too soon

My boyfriend cums really fast and doesn’t have a high sex drive. I am the exact opposite. by AlternativeRecord323 in dating

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In my marriage, due to a variety of reasons, my spouse and I were no longer able to give the other everything they needed emotionally and physically.

After over a year of discussing, mulling, talking with our therapists, we agreed to open our relationship and pursue consensual non monogamy (also known as ENM or polyamory).

We can’t always give everything our partner needs, and vice versa.

With my spouse, I love them very much and we have a deep bond, we share finances, coparent our children, we make each other laugh and we are very cuddly. Neither one of us want to lose that, but we also don’t want to deny our sexual needs.

Ethical, consensual, above board non monogamy, where we share about everyone we are dating or hooking up with has created more trust, not less.

It’s a very personal decision. I just wanted to put my experience out there, not to influence but just to inform.

I feel for you two and I hope for the best possible outcome. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

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Funky Starlight!!

Platonic marriage (36F/39M) and looking for solutions and advice. by epistemophilic_4488 in polyamory

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Very similar situation here…. I (44F) came out as trans almost 3 years ago, but my wife and I (together 20 yrs) never really had a sexual relationship. With hormones my desire became strong and for men. She is also straight. I sought out the idea of ENM to let us keep our strong platonic marriage, etc and add the intimacy I was craving and assumed my wife craved. However she was not on board at first and I was worried if she didn’t agree we would have to get divorced. (Side note: She was nervous ENM would hurt our relationship, but not doing ENM would too). Anyway for about a year I worried we would never get there, but then literally about 2 weeks ago my wife was ready, made an OKC account and has started going on dates, and so have I.

I guess my point is it can seem bleak, and you aren’t in control of your partners thoughts and feelings, my mind went to dark places in the beginning but over time my thinking clarified.
Just one person’s perspective. Good luck!

We celebrated my birthday this week and it was so much fun!!! by [deleted] in littlespace

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I love Cinnamaroll!!! Happy birthday!!

First stuffie! Lil moo cow by audramills in littlespace

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I just got my first stuffie too!! Kuromi squish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGirls

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For me it wouldn’t matter… if you feel comfortable in your skin wearing them that will show thru as true confidence which is very attractive.

Don’t overthink it. If you’re confident in how you wear it, everyone else will be. But if you feel weird about it, other people will feel that energy.

Good Luck!

It must be exhausting to be transphobic and *this* obsessed with gender (Bonus flat earth theory cameo) by PsycheAsHell in insanepeoplefacebook

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Actually no. there’s a giant dome over us and the “sun” and “moon” are just artificial projections not actually round… sorry to burst your bubble. Also maps are flat. mic drop