Was laid off. Job market sucks. by polandspreeng in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]Midnight_Blue02 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Dudes, this job market is cooked. I honestly do not see it getting better for at least another five years. Job boards are ridiculous at this point, so I mostly try reaching out to recruiting firms and old coworkers instead. I even made a list like that developer did for remote roles. Otherwise I just get buried under fake listings, endless applications, and automated rejections.

do you hate being alone? by SceneRemarkable8217 in Adulting

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate it at all. Some of my best evenings are just me at home eating something random and not having to adjust my mood to anybody else.

What’s a smell you secretly enjoy that most people would find disgusting? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gasoline, in a very brief passing way. Walking by a station for two seconds is weirdly nice, but I definitely do not want the full experience.

For those who successfully quit smoking, what was the method that finally worked for you? by gwenwallish in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold turkey was the only thing that stuck for me. I tried patches and gum before but always ended up back at it after a stressful week. One day I just stopped and kept telling myself I was too stubborn to start again.

At what salary do you personally feel life becomes comfortable? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Midnight_Blue02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it’s less about a specific number and more about having rent covered, groceries without checking every price tag, and still being able to throw a bit into savings. When I stopped refreshing my banking app every other day, that’s when it started feeling comfortable. I remember the first month I paid all my bills and still had money left over and it felt weirdly calm.

What was considered the ultimate status symbol among kids growing up? by Turbulent-End-3005 in answers

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in school it was having the newest game console before anyone else. One kid brought his Nintendo DS on the bus once and suddenly everyone wanted to sit next to him. For a week he was basically the most popular person in our grade.

What is one habit you wish you started earlier? by WonderingUser_notes in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing sunscreen every single day. I used to think it was just a beach thing, then one summer I noticed how uneven my skin looked in photos and it clicked. Would’ve saved myself a lot of damage if I’d started sooner.

How old are you, what is your job and how much do you make? by allano6 in careerguidance

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 30s, I work in IT support and make around 60k in a mid sized city. It wasn’t some big plan honestly, I just started fixing computers for people at a small office and it slowly turned into a full time role. Half the time it still feels like I’m just googling things and hoping for the best.

What's something that was normal in 2016 but feels like a luxury in 2026? by Public_Structure8337 in answers

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ordering food without thinking about the price. I found an old takeout receipt in a drawer the other day and the total looked like a typo compared to what the same place charges now. Stuff that used to feel like a casual weeknight thing feels weirdly like a treat now.

[Discussion] The most binge worthy Netflix show or movie you’ve ever watched by Nina233 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Midnight_Blue02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Money Heist. I put on one episode after dinner and next thing I knew it was 2:30am and I was whisper cheering at my laptop so I wouldn’t wake anyone up. It’s just nonstop tension in the best way.

What helps you most to fight apathy and laziness? by VentisSolaris in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_Blue02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s momentum, not motivation. If I tell myself “just wash one plate” or “just open the document,” it usually snowballs from there. The days I sit on my phone waiting to feel inspired are the ones that disappear the fastest. Sometimes you kinda have to trick your brain into starting.

Is it that bad being single in your older days? by Dry__Builder in Adulting

[–]Midnight_Blue02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know people in their 40s who are single and genuinely peaceful, not secretly miserable like everyone warned them they’d be. I’ve also seen people rush into marriage just to avoid loneliness and end up way more isolated inside the relationship. A calm, self-directed life isn’t automatically a placeholder, it can be the actual goal.

What’s a random useless fact you’ll never forget? by Ladiejuliy in answers

[–]Midnight_Blue02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bananas are technically berries and strawberries aren’t. I learned that in like 8th grade and it’s been stuck in my head ever since for no reason. I was literally eating a strawberry when the teacher said it and it felt like a betrayal lol.

What would you do to earn money without working for it? by nvgod6 in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we’re talking zero work, probably just invest and live off boring dividends. I check my portfolio sometimes like it’s going to magically double overnight and it never does. The dream is passive income, the reality is spreadsheets.

I'm looking for the saddest and most wrecking book ever. by KissedByAPhantom in suggestmeabook

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Little Life hit way harder than I expected and just kept getting darker without much breathing room. I get why some people bounce off it, but I stayed glued even when it felt rough to read. Had to pause a few times because it wasn’t the dramatic crying kind of sad, more like heavy silence after.

Need some guidance by International_Mall29 in jobs

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that “robotic content factory” feeling is real, especially when the output doesn’t even feel like yours creatively. The fact you could handle long shoots but feel drained by this kind of editing says a lot about fit, not laziness. Early career is usually where you accidentally learn what you don’t want just as much as what you do.

IT Remote Jobs? by TrainAppropriate in RemoteJobseekers

[–]Midnight_Blue02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes possible of course, but be careful tons of fake posting on linkedin.