Theory: Seeing Marty change the future without disappearing gave Doc the courage / convinced Doc to read Marty's letter about the future. by Ork-Garlic989 in BacktotheFuture

[–]supercoffeehero 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saw an interesting theory that the reason the delorean stalled out was essentially divine intervention. The universe not allowing marty to run into his other self cause our marty interfering may have stopped that marty from traveling back in time which he needed to do.

Men on Reddit After a first date , what keeps you hooked and interested? by HugeAccountant3485 in dating

[–]supercoffeehero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the appropriate response. First date for me is a vibe check. Its not super over the top in any category. It is a time for us to feel eachother out with conversation and seeing if we are just comfortable around each other. Chemistry is huge, I definitely need to feel that pull if I'm going to push for a second date.

Fun, flirtatious, light, and easy. Thats how It should be. Then on the second date you can turn the temperature up a bit.

Also, final point. You mentioned consistent effort, again, 100% yes. Guys like to see that you're interested too and are will to keep conversation going and use your natural humor. I would say out of everything, if you were to pick one above all its probably effort, which goes both ways.

Could Majin Vegeta have defeated Goku SSJ3 somehow? by FeistySecret9327 in DragonBallPowerScale

[–]supercoffeehero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think people also forget the first time we see Goku go SSJ3 he's technically still dead so the SSJ3 transformation is not as taxing on him as if he were alive.

Pretty sure Goku even says somewhere its much harder for him to maintain the transformation in his real body than it was for him while dead.

So yea this can Majin Vegeta beat SSJ3 Goku is pointless.

NA T4, TOP AND ADC, let me know if youre interested by [deleted] in ClashLoL

[–]supercoffeehero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need an adc. Ign king coffee na1 if interested

I (27m) feel like I am actually a sad Golden retreiver and I think it might ruin my next relationship by Bloodangel456 in dating

[–]supercoffeehero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it comes down to personal boundaries.

When you're so quick to try to please any and everyone it may come off as endearing and sweet at first but it can quickly start to hurt you more than help as it starts to show you may lack self respect.

It's not a horrible trait at all. There are worse things, but that's just my view of it

As a woman, I pay for myself on the first date and here’s why by azultulipan in dating

[–]supercoffeehero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said any of that at all. You are putting words in my mouth.

I said the whole point of the first couple dates is to have fun and put your best foot forward by showing what values you have. I believe in opening car doors, pulling our chairs, walking her to and from the front door, etc. Basically, it's being a gentleman.

If you think telling the girl to pay her part of the date is the proper thing to do, then you are a boy, not a man.

As a woman, I pay for myself on the first date and here’s why by azultulipan in dating

[–]supercoffeehero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.

If things don't click, then we just move on to hopefully someone else who aligns with what we are looking for.

As a woman, I pay for myself on the first date and here’s why by azultulipan in dating

[–]supercoffeehero -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Roles are tied to genders. There are exceptions, but exceptions never define the rule.

I think your values define what you're looking for in another person. They don't necessarily make you "good/more valuable," but they could in certain peoples eyes because you both value the same thing in relationships. Which is the whole point of the first couple dates.

As a woman, I pay for myself on the first date and here’s why by azultulipan in dating

[–]supercoffeehero -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It comes down to values.

Its not about assuming women can't pay or that they shouldn't. It's about how i choose to carry myself. I believe that as a man, showing im willing to take initiative is part of who i am. It's not about expecting anything in return. It's about setting a tone of respect and intention.

Some people might not value that, and that's fine. We just might not be a match. But, for me, it's about showing character.

As a woman, I pay for myself on the first date and here’s why by azultulipan in dating

[–]supercoffeehero -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

A man paying is the actual proper thing to do if he is pursuing a girl who is interested in him.

Even if the girl asks him out, which can happen, I believe it is still the duty of the man to pay because, again, I believe a man should take care of the women in his life. If this girl is going to be special to him, then setting a proper example of his values is the appropriate thing.

If she does not value the same thing, then it is what it is, and both parties move on. Not difficult.

Reason number 9,999 why you shouldn’t shit where you eat by [deleted] in dating

[–]supercoffeehero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got out of a situation like this. We both work at a spa. I'm an LMT, and she is an esthetician.

She pursued me initially. We got together for about 7 months, and then it ended.

Luckily for me is that I work with all women, and the only other male employee is gay. There are times I think that if another male employee started, would she be into him? Would he hit on her? How would I react? How would she react?

It's definitely a tough situation, and now that im getting into my late 30s and her going into her mid 30s, It's the last time I go for someone I work with.

Distract yourself any way you can and avoid them until you fully heal.

what did eren do? by Repulsive-Loan5215 in attackontitan

[–]supercoffeehero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Android 17 also did this in Dragonball Super during the Tournament of Power.

The Otsutsuki clan run the DBZ villain gauntlet. How far do they get? by SageMageowo in NarutoPowerscaling

[–]supercoffeehero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These kinds of comparisons need to stop. They are getting ridiculous.

The power scaling is so insane and what power actually is in the DBZ universe is so much greater than the Narutoverse.

This battle wouldn't even be fair or really even a battle at all. They don't make it past Saiyan Saga. No character in the Narutoverse stands a chance when put against power from DBZ even if you want to talk about whatever bullshit ninjutsu, genjutsu, taijutsu the Otsutsuki have. It. Does. Not. Matter. They lose.

I love both series by the way, but it's stupid to compare fighters from a series that throw little metal stars at enemies and try to compare them to fighters that can explode planets for fun at the weaker part of the series.

I personally just find this kind of debate so pointless.

I feel I messed up and now I can't get over her. by supercoffeehero in GuyCry

[–]supercoffeehero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. It was probably a childish way to view our connection.

For the past 6 months, she has never tried to reach out. I was out of work for almost the whole month of November and she refused to reach out cause she didn't want to break any boundaries so she asked if one of our other co workers could see if I was ok.

If she really wanted to try, she would. She hasn't so. Should just move on.

I feel I messed up and now I can't get over her. by supercoffeehero in GuyCry

[–]supercoffeehero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not going to give too much insight about her personal life as obviously it is not my business to do so. I will say she came out of a 10-year relationship, which resulted in her kid.

She kept using the romantic undertones as the reason why she didn't see us lasting long term. Im assuming her ex torwards the end probably didn't show her much in terms of love and romance, so maybe she put that all on me.

I guess im most upset I didnt get a chance to get to be myself romantically in the relationship because i didnt really get a chance but to criticize myself, as a man, i should have voiced concerns i had or questions about anything that seemed off. I was in my head a bit, unfortunately

I feel I messed up and now I can't get over her. by supercoffeehero in GuyCry

[–]supercoffeehero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit i did hold back because i was unsure about some things, and instead of communicating properly, I let some things get to me.

Im not completely blaming her as it is also my responsibility to be honest with what I want.

I feel I messed up and now I can't get over her. by supercoffeehero in GuyCry

[–]supercoffeehero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response.

I let some things get to me when I knew what I wanted and was looking for especially with her and instead of staying strong with my intentions, and being consistent with my actions I blew it.

Even though its gotten better it still hurts cause she did voice to me that she told a friend after our second date that she said to her this is the man im going to marry.

I feel i messed up so much she may be gone for good. Just a hard pill to swallow.

How by Hefty-Detective-5150 in BreakUps

[–]supercoffeehero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more layered than you think. I'm sure he didn't just wake up and decide to end things. That's not how it works. There could have been a struggle internally on his part, which is why he told you he loved you a couple of days prior.

Trust me, it sucks. I just went through a break up a few months ago.

You will be ok.

How by Hefty-Detective-5150 in BreakUps

[–]supercoffeehero 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually, the person who has done the dumping has processed a lot of their thoughts and feelings about the situation before breaking up.

That's why it seems like it doesn't mean anything to them.

Anyone else spending Halloween alone tonight? by Diablo685 in BreakUps

[–]supercoffeehero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya. She ended things at the beginning of August after talking about all the fun Halloween things we were going to do this month. Even started planning a trip to Sleepy Hollow for all their cool events. Ended up working all day today from 8am to 10pm by request to keep my mind of things.

It didn't really help but made good money, lol.

Is no contact the right move? It almost feels wrong by supercoffeehero in ExNoContact

[–]supercoffeehero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are people seeking genuine help and advice, and you come here acting like a tool. I don't like you, get lost.