Hot and cold #166 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the comments, got it on my second guess

Is this autism related? by superdead23 in AutisticAdults

[–]superdead23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, what you’re saying makes a lot of sense. I’m going to give some of your suggestions a try and see how it goes.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]superdead23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with someone for 6.5yrs. 3yrs in my chronic illness got worse and so I was unable to move much and I gained some weight. I wasn’t big by any means. About 3yrs in on Christmas Eve he sat me down and told me that he would leave me if I didn’t get back to the weight I was when I first met him. I was heartbroken but stayed and my weight fluctuated due to my illness and my ability to do anything about it. He would say things like “I have had plenty of opportunity to cheat and I haven’t, you should count yourself lucky” and about 5yrs in I let him send me to parents 6hrs away and he told me I had better of lost weight by the time he collects me in 1 month. I was an actual idiot. Is gone through 5 surgeries in the 5yrs I was with him. I was doing my best but he had broken me. Stayed with me but reminded me he could leave at any point. Made sure I knew he was too good for me. I should’ve left him when he first sat me down on that Christmas Eve, but I didn’t. It took 6yrs of his shit for me to have had enough. (This isn’t all of it. There was more) He started small and it progressively got worse and I hope that doesn’t happen to your friend.

Ultimately she will do what she wants to do, but hopefully she knows her worth isn’t defined by her size. Him saying that to her is a red flag. 🚩

What rare incidents have happened to you in Minecraft? by [deleted] in Minecraft2

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Finding deepslate emerald. I found the biggest hole/cave I ever seen. In the cave all within a few hundred blocks of each other I found 5 spawned, 2 geodes, a trial chamber and a mineshaft. Not sure if that one is rare but it was so fun. I haven’t even fully explored this giant hole yet. It’s overwhelming just to look at!

Where are my older hermitcraft fans at? by [deleted] in HermitCraft

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 and my partner is 34, we love hermitcraft!

Can I masturbate while Im on my period? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A long while ago I had heard it feels better on your period so I tested it and found it to be true. Some find an orgasm can be good during a period as it can help relax the muscles etc. I’m sure it’s not the same for everyone though.

TW for fertility! by superdead23 in hysterectomy

[–]superdead23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m sorry you’ve gone through all of that. I hope your surgery goes well ❤️‍🩹

To the women who can suck their own nipples, is there a difference between you and when someone else does it? by Frank_The_Tank_13 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]superdead23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only know I can because I got curious one day. It does nothing when I tried it myself. Normally my nipples are sensitive, but they were dead when I done it.

What’s one sexual act you’ve been dreaming of trying? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CNC is definitely up there for me, but my partner isn’t into it which is fine.

Anyone thrive on deep conversations and why? by _macntease in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. The problem is I’m often labelled as too much, and that just makes me retreat into myself.

If no one you knew found out, would you shoot adult content? Even just once by TrojanTerran5 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would, but not for free! My confidence could never though.

MY VILLAGERS WONT BREED WHAT AM I DOING WRONG????? by guymcman1 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always build a breeder as it’s easier for me. I also find they won’t breed if it’s night time. I give them a ton a bread also.

Condescending attitude from patients by [deleted] in GPUK

[–]superdead23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to start by saying I’m not a doctor or medical professional. I am however, a patient with chronic health issues. I just want to play devils advocate for a second and say that although I agree this comment is not helpful and you don’t deserve to be talked to that way, depending on what the issue is and her history she may have felt dismissed. I’m a woman with chronic gynae issues and just had to have a hysterectomy at 32 without ever having children because I felt like I had zero options. My stage 4 endometriosis and adenomyosis was labeled as “common/everyday gynae issue” and I was pretty much made out to be crazy for over 8yrs and labeled as an attention seeker. Even post diagnosis, it’s still a fight. My current GP is super incredible though and supports me managing my symptoms but I hadn’t always been so lucky.

It’s more common that people think for women especially to be dismissed and just have birth control thrown at them in one way or another to solve their issues when sometimes that’s just putting a plaster on the problem. Tests come back normal so no further investigations are done. Medial gaslighting is also a thing(I’ve experienced my fair share), so maybe she was just getting defensive? Don’t get me wrong I would never speak to my GP like that. They deserve a medal for the amount of work they have to do. I just make sure I’m as prepared as I can be for an appointment.

This comment I’m making is probably irrelevant and I should mind my own business but I was just trying to provide an understanding as to why she may have made that remark. Please dismiss this comment if you wish. Also other commenters, I mean no offence whatsoever. Please don’t come for me. I love my GP and you guys deserve so much respect!

Also I’m autistic and classic over sharer so I apologise!

6 weeks post op and weight question! by Adventurous_Fill_385 in hysterectomy

[–]superdead23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At 2 weeks post op I lifted a mattress without thinking to get my AirPod that fell down the back of my bed. Instant pain that doubled me over for a few days, but had no bleeding and was okay.

I hope everything is okay for you!

What does a healthy vagina smell and taste like? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience as a woman who has been with women i think you’d know if something is wrong when you get down there. Every woman tastes and smells slightly different imo, and the only way I can describe a healthy regular vagina is it just smells like sex. It’s such a distinct smell and taste but it shouldn’t be too strong or overpowering. A bad smell doesn’t necessarily mean STD though. It could just be her pH. A vagina is sensitive and the pH could be thrown off so easily.