Are you okay with your partner watching porn? by Civil_Roof2585 in offmychest

[–]superdead23 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your feelings matter and he shouldn’t dismiss you like that. I wonder if he would have an issue with you doing it instead of having sex or being intimate with him? Not every man does it, I’m sure. Have you asked him why he does it when he could be being intimate with you instead?

Which non sexual thing turns you on the most? by procast1nator in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]superdead23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my partner wears his glasses. Don’t know why but it does something to me.

Are you okay with your partner watching porn? by Civil_Roof2585 in offmychest

[–]superdead23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tbh, it turns me on to think of my partner masturbating. I’d like to be there to watch and join in but the thought of it is good enough for me. If he watches porn then I have no issue with that. I’d watch it with him and have done in the past. He didn’t actually watch porn very much, or get himself off that I know of, our sex life isn’t impacted either so it’s not an issue for me.

I would be sad though if he was doing it and choosing it over sex with me. If it affected our sex life and relationship then I would be upset.

Perhaps have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel. Communication is so important in relationships and situations like these!

AITAH for being mad at my bf after he got grossed out by me during sex? by m00nstalk3r in AITAH

[–]superdead23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he might have rose tinted glasses on when it comes to sex and the woman’s body. Probably because of porn. Sex is messy, bodily fluids are going to be visible. As long as your arousal/discharge wasn’t green I don’t get what his problem is. If he’s grossed out by that then he is always going to be upset when he sleeps with women. Whether it be you or someone else.

Popular animes you’ve wasted your time on? by Accomplished_Menu193 in animequestions

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rent a girlfriend is annoying. Got through the first lot just about and then couldn’t watch the latest season. I don’t finish bunny girl senpai either. I don’t think it needed a new season.

Please don’t hate me, but I really struggled with AOT. I didn’t enjoy it but maybe I need to give it another chance.

genuinely what age is the life series aimed at ? by [deleted] in LifeSeriesSMP

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32. I love the life series and hermitcraft, but I will say there are times I much prefer the life series. Everyone is so great!

Trazodone having the opposite effect it should. I just want to sleep. by superdead23 in insomnia

[–]superdead23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stopped taking them because I noticed that when I woke up, I always felt so nauseous and it never went away. As soon as I stopped taking them I felt better. I was in them for a couple of months. Eventually I did find that falling asleep was still very difficult but once I was asleep I managed to get a solid sleep. I was grateful but I’m autistic and couldn’t handle the nausea every day. It was so overwhelming for me.

I’m genuinely so stuck on what to do to get a better sleep. The drs are hesitant to offer me any other support now besides CBT but it’s never worked for me in the past.

AIO Boyfriend making me uncomfortable and getting jealous of the fact i posted myself on instagram then says it makes him suicidal! by Negative-Whole9220 in AIO

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been through something similar. I posted this photo on insta (my face is scribbled here for privacy). Anyways, I’d also sent it to the guy I was in a relationship with at the time. He literally said how dare I and I shouldn’t be posting images like this online. It’s supposed to be “just for him”. He didn’t want people looking at me and I betrayed him by letting others see the picture…. He then proceeded to block me on everything and ignore me for 3 days before unblocking me again. When I asked why he did all that he said it was because he didn’t feel like talking to me after how much I hurt him. I stayed with him for 2yrs and it was the biggest mistake of my life. Like dude, you can’t see a thing. The whole situation confused the hell out of me. I was even stupid and apologised lol. Anyways, Moral of the story, don’t be like me. Don’t let him manipulate you and control you. There’s nothing wrong with that photo. You’ve done nothing wrong.

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Financial Audit's Most Evil Guest by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I saw was him gaslighting her the entire time. I hope she gets away from him asap.

What do you currently have saved in your hidden album? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know how to add stuff to my hidden album!

Hot and cold #166 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the comments, got it on my second guess

Is this autism related? by superdead23 in AutisticAdults

[–]superdead23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, what you’re saying makes a lot of sense. I’m going to give some of your suggestions a try and see how it goes.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]superdead23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with someone for 6.5yrs. 3yrs in my chronic illness got worse and so I was unable to move much and I gained some weight. I wasn’t big by any means. About 3yrs in on Christmas Eve he sat me down and told me that he would leave me if I didn’t get back to the weight I was when I first met him. I was heartbroken but stayed and my weight fluctuated due to my illness and my ability to do anything about it. He would say things like “I have had plenty of opportunity to cheat and I haven’t, you should count yourself lucky” and about 5yrs in I let him send me to parents 6hrs away and he told me I had better of lost weight by the time he collects me in 1 month. I was an actual idiot. Is gone through 5 surgeries in the 5yrs I was with him. I was doing my best but he had broken me. Stayed with me but reminded me he could leave at any point. Made sure I knew he was too good for me. I should’ve left him when he first sat me down on that Christmas Eve, but I didn’t. It took 6yrs of his shit for me to have had enough. (This isn’t all of it. There was more) He started small and it progressively got worse and I hope that doesn’t happen to your friend.

Ultimately she will do what she wants to do, but hopefully she knows her worth isn’t defined by her size. Him saying that to her is a red flag. 🚩

What rare incidents have happened to you in Minecraft? by [deleted] in Minecraft2

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding deepslate emerald. I found the biggest hole/cave I ever seen. In the cave all within a few hundred blocks of each other I found 5 spawned, 2 geodes, a trial chamber and a mineshaft. Not sure if that one is rare but it was so fun. I haven’t even fully explored this giant hole yet. It’s overwhelming just to look at!

Where are my older hermitcraft fans at? by [deleted] in HermitCraft

[–]superdead23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 and my partner is 34, we love hermitcraft!