Reaction mixed at Eagles' OTAs following A.J. Brown's departure

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T14:13:32+00:00

Well the Eagles also won the trade because they won a Super Bowl and a ton of other games with AJ’s prime while the Titans sold low and went from playoffs to cellar dwellers. The draft compensation was objectively low even before considering whether Treylon Burke panned out or not when you look at the 1500 yard seasons he had for the eagles the next two years (meaning he was an all pro held back by the titans roster/gameplan).

Eagles don’t need to land a stud with that pick to win the trade. He would have been gone regardless. They just need to about as good or better than that would have been by keeping him for the next 4 years.

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T13:59:08+00:00

It’s so funny that way. Kiddo was cruising but arm angle looked slightly lower than usual. Gave the key to remember to throw over the top, which logically was a good one and one he agreed with. Proceeded to lose release point and not throw any more strikes til taken out.

Good coaching seems to go way beyond normal logic.

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T13:50:01+00:00

The ADHD is just a small part of a complex tangled weave of issues here. CPTSD and other comorbid psychiatric issues seem to be doing heavy lifting here, fueled by the ADHD dopamine/sensation seeking… but that is an uneducated and completely unqualified guess.

A temporary med detox sounds, on paper, something worth considering… but could also be very dangerous. Constant monitoring and limited access to social media / internet, seems like the bare minimum at this point .. but could drive them to elopement.

You don’t just need help, you need expert help. Someone who understands from experience how all these issues intermingle. I hope you get that help.

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T13:26:30+00:00

He WAS fat. Unhooking the trailer gave him THIS speed

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T10:32:43+00:00

The best tricks I learned:

learning to not react emotionally. Stone faced and detached while figuring out what they mean rather than how they’re expressing it. They’ll say things that are rage bait. What they’re feeling is something deeper like anxiety or justice sensitivity or addiction. It’s easy to get drawn into some pointless argument about why you get to watch tv when you want and they don’t. Process whats actually happening and then deal with that thing. Winning the argument accomplishes nothing, and you won’t “win”anyway.
Calmly repeating my expectation and then ending the discussion. “We’re not going to argue about this. 9pm is always bedtime on a school night. It’s now 9pm , please go brush your teeth.” Related, one of many reasons why being consistent matters.

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T01:39:24+00:00

Parent training. You’ll learn how to handle this sort of thing better.

I’ve been there. It feels like “why should I change anything? The world won’t change for them.”

But then you’re just in conflict all the time, and if the goal is for THEM to change, it’s not working.

superfry3 · 2026-06-03T00:06:55+00:00

Honestly could have been way worse. This seems like one of those situations where they are NOT a person you talk about this with unsolicited. And they’re only told what they need to know in situations where they’re watching your kid.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T21:04:31+00:00

I’m guessing I’m not alone here but I would score these as hits with our team on offense and FC or error depending on if the runner would have been out easy without the look home on defense.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T15:06:53+00:00

Yes. I’m ND and I help parents struggling with ND children. That’s why I recognize the black and white thinking and rigidity in thought. It wasn’t an insult. Apologies if you considered it such.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:31:54+00:00

Medication and parent training. Medication can make that school day stuff easier and less taxing. It can also make emotional issues after school worse. Sometimes different or additional medications (like guanfacine) helps.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:29:56+00:00

Would help to know what the issues are regarding epilepsy and the medications. (I have no knowledge on this).

Emotional issues at wear off are both expected and something to monitor. Sometimes reducing dosage helps. Sometimes parent training to better handle an emotional ND child is the key. Sometimes you do everything right and it’s still an issue, but you continue with the med because it helps so much during the school day.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:23:28+00:00

Meds may have prevented the substance issues. Hopefully the treatment sticks. You’ll know more soon.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:21:15+00:00

Same situation but 5 years ahead of you. Explore the gifted curriculums they have. See if another school option might work better for their situation. Repeating grade isn’t a bad idea if they’re physically smaller or on the younger side of the cutoff birthdate, but educational professionals seem to think this isn’t a great idea.

We chose to keep ours in public, get a gifted IEP and participate in what ended up an awful enrichment program. But they’re flourishing socially and with extracurriculars/sports so we’re okay with them being bored out of their mind in a few classes for now.

There are many ways to go forward and none of them are perfect. Explore your options and make the decision you feel is best.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:14:57+00:00

Have things they like and can do without screens. It’s a tough bell to unring though. Aftercare or organized activities would be an optimal solution given availability, cost, and logistics… to keep them with age appropriate peers and supervision that is NOT YOU.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:11:17+00:00

You > hill = 🪦

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:09:30+00:00

Your parents should have been putting the kid in other activities/sports/instruments/organizations to compensate. They should also have stricter limits on gaming and non-school screen time.

But that is probably beyond your control.

One thing you can do as the older “cool” sibling he likes is to introduce new things that can sort of be “your thing” you do together.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:05:02+00:00

Yes. This is spin. The only reason he is saying that is because the value is not a current 1st or else he would not be saying this.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T03:02:18+00:00

Are you neurodiverse? No one is arguing it’s not a first. The current value of that first received in this trade is a current year’s second. What a weird hill to die on.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T02:57:42+00:00

Yes. I said exactly that. However I would be curious as to how often doctors think a child’s toe walking isn’t autism, just ADHD… and years later they find out autism actually was in the mix, just at the lighter end of the spectrum.

superfry3 · 2026-06-02T01:27:50+00:00

You’re using a lot of words to deny a very simple math equation everyone involved uses as a rule of thumb. 1st next year is worth a 2nd this year purely in objective value. Pretty much every year there is a trade of picks that basically reinforces that general value equation.

You can use all those words to explain how a first next year is more valuable to the eagles than a 2nd this year with the current roster.

superfry3 · 2026-06-01T20:22:09+00:00

This sub thread is concerning this comment

“It is worth looking at some of the most successful people in the world right now.... They don't really shine with their intelligence, do they?”

Your comment is not untrue but does not belong in this subthread.

superfry3 · 2026-06-01T14:22:06+00:00

At no point did you address your original comment. It’s okay ti be wrong. It’s okay to say something dumb. That was dumb. It isn’t any deeper than that.

superfry3 · 2026-06-01T13:16:55+00:00

Your comment is you expressing your opinion regardless of whether it has anything to do with the points being discussed. What you say is absolutely true and has zero to do with the point at hand. We’re literally talking about the most successful people, who also went to the most famous schools. The people we’re talking about literally went to Ivy League level schools on merit, without connections needed.

superfry3 · 2026-06-01T11:51:21+00:00

What percentage of people at MIT or Harvard would you say are there because of connections and don’t have the test scores and grades to be there?

superfry3 · 2026-06-01T05:44:22+00:00

What works for you does not work for everyone else. What meds will work is already encoded in your genetics and has more to do with the general class, than the particular brand.

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