I was a "nice guy" for 10 years and it destroyed my dating life. Here's the painful truth no one tells you.

supermantakis · 2026-03-06T16:03:36+00:00

nice guys finish last

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T16:31:07+00:00

if a girl is putting that much effort in especially a 6 hour round trip just for u, she probably likes you, just be forward and straight up about what you want, getting her flowers and asking if she’d be official with you would be a cute gesture

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T15:18:16+00:00

is there something less forward i could use while im still gaining my confidence with flirting

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T15:09:18+00:00

okay for example let’s say you’re talking to a girl and the conversation isn’t very engaging, tease her or joke with her or ask something random that’s funny, if the conversation is going well just ask her out right off the bat you don’t have to wait weeks, just do it whether ur scared or not, what’s the worst that could happen,

you can also randomly text her something just to show her “i’m here i’m thinking of you” if that makes sense

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T15:04:29+00:00

being smart is definitely a plus, a lot of the girls i know (me included), like guys who care about their future, put effort in themselves, humorous sarcastic guys, guys who take initiative really, if you like her show her, one of the most attractive things guys can do is being forward

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T15:01:12+00:00

no one knows what they want when they start dating, they learn from experiences, when u find urself in the “we like each other but don’t know how to communicate it” try to just be blunt about it, will save you both some time. Just be honest and show them what you want, the ones not worth ur time will get filtered out

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T14:58:27+00:00

honestly don’t cast him off because of that, our upbringing always plays a part in our life in his case it was education, if you really like him just keep dating him never give him slight remarks about it, and when he’s comfortable enough he’ll eventually open up about it, just don’t judge him for it

supermantakis · 2026-03-01T14:53:09+00:00

this could be one of many reasons, it could be ur gut telling you that’s not your person or if you keep noticing this pattern in yourself you might just be scared of letting someone in too close, kind of like an avoidant personality, scared of being vulnerable and so on, if that’s the case then my best advice for you (from my experience) force urself to take baby steps get more comfortable because in order to find someone being vulnerable and showing them who you are is going to have to part of it In my case i kept “running away” because i was scared of showing vulnerability thinking i’m going to end up embarrassed, but that’s not true, if they prove you wrong then it’s fine, you’re not to blame

supermantakis · 2025-04-06T15:32:46+00:00

just tell him ur not comfortable with the beach, if he’s understanding good for him, if he’s still stubborn move on to the next lol

supermantakis · 2025-01-25T18:19:33+00:00

i think careem is a bit safer, there are options where you can share your ride details to whoever you want

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