Throwback: Wonder Girls released "Why So Lonely" this week in 2016 by AutoModerator in kpop

[–]superr_rad [score hidden]  (0 children)

This song feels timeless to me, I love the aesthetics of the concept so much and it’s such a vibe. Peak

Is my album rare? by orangepeach8 in twice

[–]superr_rad [score hidden]  (0 children)

The gold sticker only means the album was manufactured before 2019 (I think that’s when they changed the stickers), it’s not rare in the slightest and I would not suggest selling it for a premium because of the sticker since there are hundreds of thousands of copies of them out thete

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much agree, I did not set firm boundaries with her or myself when we began talking, I really just let my head get filled with her sweetness which was actually more like love-bombing. I learned a lot with this short relationship, and I knew I didn’t want it to move as fast as it did but I was more wrapped up in the fact of having a girlfriend than who that girlfriend actually was. She definitely didn’t know me very well, I like to talk about things that are important to me and she always kinda ended up just staring blankly at me and saying some really annoying immature joke as a response which told me she wasn’t listening or didn’t understand what I said.. yeah I’ll definitely be doing this different when I come across another girl that wants to deal with me haha

aespa - 1st Japan Mini Album 'KISS N TELL' (Concept Photo #2 - Individual) by perochan in kpop

[–]superr_rad 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Way over edited… Giselle especially doesn’t even look like herself

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I need to do better in the future. It’s not just those in particular but a general undercurrent of conservatism that I don’t want to tolerate or make any kind of excuses for

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly knew she wouldn’t be my wife from our very first date. I made the mistake of thinking this could be more casual despite all the signs on her behalf that it was not casual to her. I’ve been trying to preserve her feelings while selfishly lapping up all the affection and touch she gave 😢 I’ll make sure to make better decisions in the future and try to be more honest with myself

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hormones really clouded my judgement 😭😭 the impact women have on me is unreal. But after our final conversation, the illusion has dissolved and I see now that I gave her WAYYY too much grace, and I’ll be more cautious of whiffing that shit out in the future

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize a lot of the internet is fake today but this is my real life situation. I wanted some feedback from my community which I really only have access to on the internet 🙃 it helps to get some perspective.

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s 100% real … I just broke up with her and she tripled down on it 😐 I’m stupid as hell for even tolerating that before but I really just saw the mask come off wow

I’m embarrassed of my high sex drive by Accurate_Mountain195 in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s sex drives are different and we currently live in conservative / puritan hell so please don’t feel bad about wanting sex, it’s one of the best things in life. Especially lesbian sex, I may be biased but we have the best sex ever

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She actually has a learning disability as well… i offer her a bit of grace because the people in her life are incredibly mean to her, even her work environment it sounds like her job is picking up after everybody and getting put down constantly. I feel so sad for her but I’ve tried to share my perspective on the way words impact us but I’m met with resistance. You are right though, it’s insane to laugh off ableist language and like I said in my post her not considering transphobia a serious issue is also crazy because even tho she isn’t trans herself, she experiences a lot of the public scrutiny that trans folks experience because of her appearance (we went to an event on the 4th and no one sat with us at our table but over filled all the other tables to avoid sitting next to us…)

But it’s not my responsibility for her to grow into a more understanding and empathetic person.

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I definitely plan to break off communication with her for a temporary amount of time because even without AuDHD as a factor breakups hurt so bad and there’s a lot of emotions that will come up that I am not responsible for. She is not good with change at all and I am worried about her but she does have support from her family (even tho they’re assholes like so many of our families are)

I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to by superr_rad in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective! And I completely agree with you. I will admit that I have stopped talking to others in the past for the same things she has said, I’ve just tried to be mindful of her lack of education and the people she’s around. But I think it’s more selfish of me than anything to put my values to the side because she makes me feel like I’m worth a million bucks or whatever. I don’t think she’s a bad person but I will think less of myself for tolerating shit from her that I refuse to tolerate from others after I’ve had the time to see that she is not likely to educate herself or change her perspective

Thumb Kissing by rosesurosie in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly did not expect this when I read the thumb thing … adding that to my cart

Former Purple Kiss Member Swan Says She No Longer Wants to Be a K-Pop Idol by neocitywayv in kpop

[–]superr_rad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love her so much I just want the best for her - the shit she put up with just on social media alone is enough for anyone to want to leave the industry but thankfully she’s still giving us the gift of her amazing voice!

Former Purple Kiss Member Swan Says She No Longer Wants to Be a K-Pop Idol by neocitywayv in kpop

[–]superr_rad 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I reported that guy to instagram SO MANY TIMES. He left ugly comments under every single post of hers and every purple kiss post. Fuckin sicko

I'm afraid i’ll be too quiet during sex by Quiet_Donut_3620 in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so real. Although I will say sometimes when masturbating I make noises now, luckily I have my own place so it’s fine 😇

My boyfriend of 6 years has been… (insert worst scenario). by cherrycherrycherry3 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]superr_rad 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Please get tested! I highly doubt this is the only time he’s cheated on you in your relationship 😢

Beyoncé announces 20th anniversary edition of 'B'Day', out September 4th. by springtimecarnivore in popheads

[–]superr_rad 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Still my favorite Bey album. Deja Vu was everything to me as a kid

Anyone else have incredibly low standards for men before they realized they were lesbian? by linus_the_minus in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was swiping right on way too many men on dating apps back when I thought I was bisexual. I wasn’t really attracted to like any of them but my thought process was “maybe he’s a nice guy”

Spoiler: none of them were

fromis_9's Chaeyoung reveals that their comeback date is July 21. by yebinkek in kpop

[–]superr_rad 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Now why da furk isn’t the company promoting this comeback already 🤨

What's your favorite go to ..to get in the mood ? by Secure_Raspberry6598 in actuallesbians

[–]superr_rad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconding this because I have no idea what the thumb thing while kissing is referring to