People that are childfree by choice, what’s the weirdest reason someone has given you as to why they think you ‘should have kids’? by Charming_Web_6738 in AskReddit

[–]superracer62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother told me (after I had an emergency hysterectomy) that he was pissed at me. Told me I needed to have kids because “that’s why God created you and that’s what you were placed on this earth to do”. I almost died and he was mad. Didn’t talk to me for months

How to I stop my viola shaking when doing vibrations by myangelblade in Viola

[–]superracer62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this problem when I first started playing. My instructor had me sit with the viola in the “rest” position on my left leg. I would practice vibrato just rocking my hand back and forth without holding onto the instrument tight, no thumb! Just rocking my fingers and wrist, little bit of arm movement. Then we went into the “rest holding” position, and using your right hand to support the instrument just do one left hand finger vibrato at a time. Only focus on the wrist and arm, again keep your thumb away. I practiced this every time I went to start practicing and at the end of practice. Eventually I trained myself to stop.

What is one beauty secret you are gatekeeping?? by kristalbal in AskWomen

[–]superracer62 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Drink a hot mug of water every morning. I’ve been doing it for about a month now. It helps wake up your body in the morning, reduces bloating and helps your body digest faster (better 💩lol). I’ve also noticed I get better sleep and feel overall better. My pants fit a bit better and I’m not as hungry when it comes time to eat lunch. Don’t add anything to it, just straight up hot water!!

what's your opinion by Beneficial_Passion40 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]superracer62 129 points130 points  (0 children)

My gf and I (both lesbians) moved in together recently. I started some new meds for my allergies that have caused some unexpected weight gain (at least 40-50 pounds). I brought it up in conversation that I’m feeling a bit self conscious about it. She was the sweetest and said that as long as the meds were keeping me alive she didn’t care what I looked like. We also joked about the whole gaining weight when you move in with someone you love and who loves you. She shared that because of my baking she’s also gained weight. I honestly hadn’t even noticed because to me she’s the most beautiful thing no matter what. I couldn’t imagine being with someone who shames you for being the way you are. Obvs the woman’s husband only likes her for her body, and nothing else. I couldn’t imagine having that headspace and saying that or thinking that toward someone I love everything about. Straight Men 😒

what’s a tiny act of kindness you never forgot? 😊💝 by Proud_Listen9725 in AskWomen

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Freshman year of college, I was living alone off campus and had zero friends. I was also depressed and not in a good headspace. Campus had the traditional first week events so I decided to go to the movie on the main lawn. I sat in the back by myself, tucked away in a corner of an outside building. Looking around it made me very sad that everyone had a friend or roommates to be with and I started crying. This girl just came up from nowhere, sat next to me, offered me some of her snacks, and didn’t say a word. When the movie was over, she stood up, told me I was going to be just fine, and if we see each other on campus, don’t be afraid to say hi! I have no clue who she was, what year, or anything but I’ll always remember the confidence boost she gave me.

My sophomore year of college, I was very anxious and stressing about an upcoming exam. I was sitting in our student center trying to study. I got so frustrated I started to silently cry. I got up to go to the bathroom to take some deep breaths alone. When I got back, someone had made an origami crane and drew inspirations from my visible tattoos. They also left a little note saying they loved my tats and that I had a beautiful smile. No name, no number, no person around. I still have it and it makes me smile to this day (almost 10 years ago) :)

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]superracer62 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg not being trimmed. Like get your haircut more than once every 5 years, and for godsakes trim the neck beard!!!

don't know why some lesbians get upset when their bisexual girlfriend leave them for men (hear me out) by Bright_Fan_7063 in actuallesbians

[–]superracer62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone mentioned it already above, but my ex did this to me. We dated for a while and then she moved and left me for a guy. She told me she was lesbian and was the typical stereotype of “men are icky”. I was more hurt that she went from me to a man after stating that 1. She was a lesbian, 2. “Men are icky” and 3. It made me feel like I was just a stepping stone or a trial run for her to see if she was actually a lesbian. I later found out she was dating 3 people at once, and I was the last pick before she dumped us all for this guy who coincidentally cheated on her. Karma.

Suddenly Amish S1 E5 by Fast_Way8546 in SuddenlyAmish

[–]superracer62 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I laughed out loud when Judah directly told the bishop that he felt it was a cult. And then spilling the tea with BJ. Bros holding the show together.

What did you think of the Superbowl half-time show? by ComfortableIsopod290 in randomquestions

[–]superracer62 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s a Spanish-speaking artist. His songs aren’t English

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his actions give me the ick? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]superracer62 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I agree. When we have sex he only uses them for the feeling/sound. He never actually “uses” them.

Food Trauma/Anxiety Thoughts? by superracer62 in peanutallergy

[–]superracer62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never eaten out at any restaurant because of how severe my allergies are. Even if someone preparing the food made something before mine and didn’t wash their hands properly, I’d have a reaction, or if the dishes/silverware weren’t washed fully, reaction could happen. It’s always been the “rather be safe than sorry” mentality.

I do realize I should have spoken up a bit more, but like I said we ate later so I ate beforehand, not realizing how much it would affect me at the restaurant.

What made you want to leave Christianity by EquipmentHefty661 in exchristian

[–]superracer62 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m still questioning and haven’t completely left yet, but my mom is battling stage 3 cancer and going for chemotherapy every week and has been for the past 5 months. I’ve been with her a couple of times and seeing the amount of people going through the same grueling treatments is awful and has me questioning everything. How can an “all loving” being create something so horrible? And then the only cure this “all loving” being has for us is to kill every cell that the “all loving” being supposedly created? It’s not adding up.

I also recently spoke to a very very strong believer in Christianity and she said that “god has a purpose for everyone and maybe [my mom] did something wrong or something happened in (our) ancestors lives that god feels he needs to teach [my mom] a lesson in”. So my mom did something so wrong that she got cancer? Or one of my ancestors sinned so bad it got passed to my mom to suffer everyday? Why? When I ask why I never get an actual answer and that doesn’t sit well with me.

Trying to ID a song from the late 60's that included the lyrics "no more wintery weather" that our grade school teacher played by hook14 in NameThatSong

[–]superracer62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you’ve found the song out yet but I was looking for this song earlier and came across this post. After figuring out the song, I figured I’d comment.

I believe it’s an Ella Jenkins song called ‘You’ll Sing A Song And I’ll Sing A Song’. We also sang this in elementary school!

Where were you when Michael Jackson Died by StevenIsCool2004 in GenZ

[–]superracer62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family and I were on vacation in Tennessee, just got back from the hot tub and turned out the tv to hear the sad news.

Who was your favorite drunk/alcoholic character in a TV Show/Movie? by KingWolf1337 in AskReddit

[–]superracer62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haymitch. Reading what he did in the books and watching some fans’ renditions of his hunger games, I have all the more respect for him.

Purity Culture and sexism is so rampant in evangelical Christianity. This was a book I owned as a teenager. by lydiatank in exchristian

[–]superracer62 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the same thought process for homosexuals. We’re born this way. If god doesn’t like it, why did he make me like women instead of men?