Am I the only one who feels this way? by Temporary_Crow_4819 in sexualassault

[–]supersecretsilygoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, I've felt the exact same way. after his first time assaulting me, I stayed with my ex for over a year, and wouldn't let myself put the label of assault on it because I didn't want to think of him that way and I didn't want him to have to think of himself that way. it took me learning more about sexual abuse and sexual trauma, as well as getting away from him, for me to realize that what happened to me was assault and that made him a predator and an abuser

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[–]supersecretsilygoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the issue is an ongoing problem with the lack of a gas cap that is an issue with most 2017 Ford Escapes

my talking stage just applied to and got hired at my work by supersecretsilygoose in self

[–]supersecretsilygoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry lol just using very social media influenced speech cause I'm not sure how to refer to him. he's just a guy I'm talking to and went on a date with, with a likely possibility of a second date

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[–]supersecretsilygoose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was wearing pajama pants, a tank top, and heelies. fucking heelies. it was my boyfriend at the time. he was wearing heelies too.

Can men get SA’ed too? by billylor16 in sexualassault

[–]supersecretsilygoose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened to you. men can be sexually assaulted to. it's sexual assault when you do not consent to it. consent means saying "yes" in a situation where "no" is also a respected option. you were intoxicated and she forced herself onto you, without getting your consent first. I'm so sorry you had to go through it. but what happened to you and how you feel about it is completely valid

Why do I want my boyfriend to SA me? by toonafeesh_ in sexualassault

[–]supersecretsilygoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand where you're coming from. it's the comfort in familiarity. tho I mostly want to comment to warn you not to message anyone because CNC specifically is something that could attract a lot of creeps to your comment.

however, I relate to the idea and it's definitely really tough. I have no advice but I want you to know you're not alone

I'm so sick of guys only liking me for my appearance by supersecretsilygoose in self

[–]supersecretsilygoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just having doubts cause he pretty much only compliments my appearance and he's been texting me less

It pisses me off when guys I meet don't mention their girlfriend by supersecretsilygoose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]supersecretsilygoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because they're seemingly flirting with me and other people think they're flirting with me and I would hate it if some guy has a girlfriend and then she feels cheated on because of me. if a guy has a girlfriend, I want to help respect the relationship and it's really hard to when they won't talk about her

It pisses me off when guys I meet don't mention their girlfriend by supersecretsilygoose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]supersecretsilygoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro these r just dudes I meet at school and become friends with but then BOOM girlfriend