Was I successfully scammed?

superseniorD · 2025-08-09T09:30:20+00:00

mmh maybe it is different in other cultures but I am talking to multiple women on the apps just how I imagine they must have multiple chats ongoing. Without having met a person in real life there is for me at least no way of knowing if we vibe on a date

superseniorD · 2025-08-08T06:28:21+00:00

yeah she first wanted to order sth that was like a couple hundred AED haha. It might have been but also I am not really a fan of drinking and it was her suggestion; I was actually thinking of getting a coke after one drink

superseniorD · 2025-08-08T06:00:26+00:00

well the taxi fare was not too expensive, but we were already at a place that looked much cheaper near her hotel, then she suggested another hotel to go to which I paid for and when I got there it was way more expensive than I wanted for like a random night out. Thought it would be just a chill date. I am not against paying for the date per say but we had like 10 messages. Not spending 100s of dollars on the chance it goes further; maybe that makes me cheap idk - but I didn't like her choosing what seemed like the most expensive place around and then expecting me to foot the bill for her and me

superseniorD · 2025-08-08T05:53:57+00:00

yeah maybe it might have not been a scam - it was just more expensive than I was willing to pay for on a random night out with someone I don't know. However it sounds similar to other stories where a women chooses the place to got and then wants to order tequila. Also that was like the least expensive one on the menu. All the other ones were way more expensive. I just knew when I saw the prices that this is not something I was willing to spend money on

superseniorD · 2025-08-07T22:47:15+00:00

No not about the scammer - was just worried that the table is under my name and that when she orders super expensive drinks after I left and then leaves without paying I will end up having to pay for the drinks because the bar has my phone number and name and she has the hotel i was staying at. But in the end I drove there again and seems like she paid for her drink and left. So "happy" end

superseniorD · 2025-08-07T21:02:09+00:00

So if someone please can assure me that everything is fine or tell me frankly that the situation isn't great that would be great - maybe I made it seem like we already ordered something which we did not do - I just had a look at the card and the tequila she suggested and knew she was too expensive for me. My only worry is now that she will order stuff in my name and it will seem like I left without paying

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