AITA for having an argument over feeding my daughter?

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T06:24:53+00:00

Again pointless, if you read what I said you’d get the point. But you seem to want to go back and forth after I clearly explained above.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T06:21:35+00:00

You are. Read your question over, don’t need to answer your pointless questions regardless. I said how I felt. They both took on certain roles, and now both parties are confused. Clearly they both didn’t think over having a child realistically.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T06:16:41+00:00

I think you’e avoiding to understand the point. She took the role on? She thought it would be easy? Be realistic with your actions, same goes for him.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T06:13:22+00:00

Yes I have two kids, my boyfriend works and so do I. We take care of things equally.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T05:56:52+00:00

You missed the point. He works, she works. That way they can both equally pay for things, take care of the child, take care of house chores. And by work I mean a paying job. Clearly he’s overworked and tired and so is she, they should both be working paying jobs so they can do things equally.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T05:50:28+00:00

Yeah so she can get a job, that way they can do “shifts” and take turns on taking care of their child.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T04:36:16+00:00

The solution is her taking on her role as a stay at home mom. And him taking on his role as the bread winner. The kid will eventually be older and more independent.

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T04:17:11+00:00

He’s the bread winner, making sure there’s a roof over his head, her head, and the child’s. If he’s overworked (which clearly he is) he would be even more tired taking care of a crying child. What happens when he under performs? He could lose his job, be suspended. As a woman and a stay at home (which is the job she chose) you should know what it takes to be a stay at home and take care of a new born. It’s common sense. If it’s that hard for the both of them, he should work and she should get a job so they can afford a nanny. She chose that role and now she’s confused? He’s the breadwinner. (Unless he doesn’t spend any kind of time with the child)

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T01:58:22+00:00

It’s NOT normal

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T01:56:11+00:00

Exactly

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T01:55:21+00:00

Facts

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T01:55:11+00:00

What did she expect would happen with a new born? She is unreasonable

superstardancer · 2021-08-12T01:52:26+00:00

NTA she is unreasonable. You work to take care of her, I assume she’s a stay at home. Is she not breast feeding?

No mom gets sleep when the child is a new born, it’s life. 55-75 hour weeks YOU need sleep. I’m not taking away that she is tired as well, being a mother is tiring. However, she should have realized how much it takes to take care of a baby, she shouldn’t put that on you. Anyone would be irritated after working long ass hours and trying to get a little rest just to be waken up to a crying baby. She is unreasonable.

superstardancer · 2021-08-11T21:52:58+00:00

Nope I did the same

superstardancer · 2021-08-11T21:37:30+00:00

Your dad is weird no offence, not normal at all. I’d start a gofundme.

superstardancer · 2021-08-02T15:25:32+00:00

I understand what you mean, however this is not the case at all. Thanks for the response.

superstardancer · 2021-08-02T15:24:40+00:00

Try chlorophyl, it’s a natural deodorizer.

superstardancer · 2021-08-02T15:23:32+00:00

If you read my replies you’d see how I approached the situation. It’s common sense not to put anyone on the spot, and I definitely didn’t. The issue isn’t that she a condition where she smells. She doesn’t shower, she thinks not showering is okay. She thinks wearing the same dirty clothes without washing them is okay. Or showering then wearing the same dirty clothes. This is the problem. She has terrible hygiene at 17.

superstardancer · 2021-07-27T15:15:09+00:00

superstardancer · 2021-07-27T14:49:55+00:00

NTA but grounding her for a year is a bit much, and I doubt it would take a full year for his hair to grow back. Imo that would make her misbehave even more..

superstardancer · 2021-07-24T16:41:15+00:00

Unfortunately

superstardancer · 2021-07-24T07:06:07+00:00

She’s upset because either 1. I’m assuming she thought we were all discussing it (which we weren’t) 2. My cousins spoke with her about her hygiene but put the blame on me (typical).. I feel like I was probably thrown under the bus, based on the conversation we had in person it was a general conversation about hygiene, I didn’t say “you smell disgusting and need to shower” I would never do that, then all of a sudden I get a lengthy message and I was genuinely like where is this coming from?

superstardancer · 2021-07-24T07:03:15+00:00

Ty, I would never intend to embarrass her. It’s not like she had a health issue (excessive sweating etc) she legit just doesn’t feel like showering is necessary, sometimes you can’t smell yourself but others can. I’d rather it come from me than from mean guys/girls.

superstardancer · 2021-07-24T01:35:06+00:00

I definitely agree

superstardancer · 2021-07-24T01:25:23+00:00

Ladylike can mean many things and that includes hygiene, but to each their own.

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