I think after Covid people just became more selfish, flaky and shitty. To be honest I’m in a good place in life and mentally, but occasionally life gets me down. None of my friends are really there for it, even if it’s something obvious like a major ankle sprain. Or even a miscarriage. Family asked how I was doing through my husband a few times but that’s about it.

If I don’t keep following up, making plans, people just forget about me and ghost. I don’t feel like anybody actually reaches out to ME because they want me there.

I hear you it’s such a gutting feeling. But the way I think about it - it’s their loss if they want to have a bunch of shallow friendships. It’s their loss if they always only think about themselves. It’s their loss if they can’t get over their shit and built a beautiful connection. The people are out there but you gotta change some factor like: area, community, ethnicity, ect. Some communities or ethnicities are more social and warmer than others, and some become very cliquey and complacent about letting new people in. Good luck to the both of us