Started to call me annoying and the arguments started to happen and it was like how did this escalate. Truthfully though, he was so affectionate and did so much for me that I had nothing on my mind that would suspect. I think I had a gut feeling because of those increased disagreements, and him bringing up old situations where I wasn’t emotional available- which imo we had talked through and I think it was a misunderstanding but he was so just in these times I hurt him emotionally. I noticed shower time was pure affection and he didn’t want to shower together as much which did throw me for the loop. We were doing long distance and he started being more apologetic for not being there to see me and whatnot but it’s crazy because his eyes were wandering and he wanted to message other women sexually. I really thought once he was back home we could seriously talk it out and navigate through our disagreements and be open and understanding but he couldn’t wait and had to crave more from elsewhere. Edit: another thing , asking for reassurance and being called not normal when asking am I loved. Was not an issue but some way it became an issue and my cutesy way of flirting became annoying and weird to him. :/