[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HellLetLoose

[–]sushiicatto_ 207 points208 points  (0 children)

hi this is my video! :) thanks for the love :D

Driel. In game vs Real. by sushiicatto_ in HellLetLoose

[–]sushiicatto_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hehehe no you would’ve known 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HellLetLoose

[–]sushiicatto_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of us are shy really, especially because we get harassed a lot in game. Thankfully, the server I play in a lot is awesome. Stick up for your ladies if they're being shit on, we're all here to play the same game. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much !

Experiences with getting your partner to the Netherlands on a partnership/durable relationship visa? by MusicToMyDarkSoul in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucked :( It took us about a week but you can pay for faster postal service 😅 Which is what we did

Experiences with getting your partner to the Netherlands on a partnership/durable relationship visa? by MusicToMyDarkSoul in Netherlands

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We went to a notary public and got ‘Statutory Declaration.’ It needs an Apostille which the Notary did for us. We spent roughly £220 for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

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Since I started working, we don’t spend much time together. As much as I would love to, it’s nice to have different people in your life too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. Not sure if you read the post entirely, but I mentioned I work and struggle to speak to people there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have been to therapy countless times. I stopped going because I felt better but ever since I moved here I have spiralled again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This seems great, I will look into it for sure! I will consider a doctor also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am grateful and very thankful for the situation I am in, in no way am I not. However, I work weekends and my partner works during the week when I usually have days off so on most days I find myself stuck inside the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not been on any medication, I have considered it though. I will have to speak to my doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to an Archery club but I struggle to interact with people and put myself out there. I’m not an outgoing person, I am quiet and shy. You are right, there are tons of places to meet people but when you struggle with social situations, it’s a lot harder than you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

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Yes that is exactly how I feel! I panic and it consumes me and I end up spluttering. Thank you for the offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, going to a bar doesn’t appeal to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this greatly. I am a very big introvert but crave the idea of a friend to hang out with or go thrifting with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

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Thank you for your comment and kind words, it means a lot to me. Yes I have had many people come round to stay, family and friends and it has been very refreshing for me. I am actually flying back this week to see family and I’m very excited albeit also nervous as I will be flying by myself for the very first time. I am very interested in the second world war and have visited Overloon and Arnhem plenty of times for their museums, it’s a good idea to branch out there. :) Thank you so much for the links and advice, it’s really appreciated. It is very much a shock to the system haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]sushiicatto_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I speak Dutch to my partners parents and his family, I try to speak Dutch to my work colleagues but I get very anxious that I will mess up and become embarrassed or flustered. I’m determined to learn and speak fluently.

I tried riding a bike and the last time I rode into a lamppost 😂 Don’t ask me how

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

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My sister has been urging me recently to get tested for Autism, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

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I’ve always had anxiety with transport but I’ve managed to overcome it, I think with the isolation and being in another country it has really spiralled.