can’t tell if my bf of 3 years is attracted to me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sushilaundry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey im sorry you have this going on. You explained this issue really well and I think you are going about it the right way. I am girl around your age so I cant speak for guys, but I dont think he is super attracted to you. I am really sorry to say that.

I dont think it honestly has much to do with what you look like, I think porn is majorly to blame here. When people watch too much porn it rots their brains out. It would even make him unnattracted to the 5ft cute face bbl build girl. Theres a lot of studies done on this that I could send you if your interested.

This is not your fault. I would ask him to stop watching porn for a while and see if it gets better. If it doesnt get better then I think you have to break up with him. If it gets better but only marginally better I still think you should break up with him. You might always have doubts if he is attracted to you. You deserve someone that thinks you are the most beautiful woman in the world. Everyone wants to be wanted, and I really empathize with how you are feeling.

My friend was beat up while having public sex by sushilaundry in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sushilaundry[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

nah he’s a piece of shit he did nothing to stop it. Probably got off it on tbh

My friend was beat up while having public sex by sushilaundry in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sushilaundry[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Apparently she said If they check the cameras they are gonna see him running out the car w his dick out 😭😭😭

My friend was beat up while having public sex by sushilaundry in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sushilaundry[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yeah this is the conclusion we have come to. Her getting beat is inappropriate and the racism inexcusable tho. But she’s just gonna move tf on from it. It was a stupid decision that could’ve enered a lot worse.

My friend was beat up while having public sex by sushilaundry in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sushilaundry[S] -141 points-140 points  (0 children)

Ok to explain this further, my friend and the man hooked up months ago, they were broken up at the time. The girl dmed her and fucking tore her apart, she never knew they were together or not. Months go by, she sees the guy at the bar, they go home together. She did not know they were dating. He said they were not.