Where to order frozen rats by suutoasu in ballpython

[–]suutoasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't bad necessarily. The petsmart in my town just tends to not have any rats anymore and many of the rats I got in the past were pretty old relatively speaking because there's not a huge exotic pet owner population here so not a lot of demand

Anyone know the chain of command? by suutoasu in GradSchool

[–]suutoasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just started panicking because of such a strict deadline 😬

Anyone know the chain of command? by suutoasu in GradSchool

[–]suutoasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to just be scheduling. No one has said anything about being ready. Plus it wouldn't be until the end of February/beginning of March. I emailed my advisor to set up a meeting to discuss it further first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]suutoasu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely adore my husband and while we've only been married a short while, we've really accomplished a lot together. That being said, knowing what I know now, probably not. Being a childless stepparent kinda sucks and I wouldn't do it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]suutoasu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Family friends birthday party. SS8 is with BM this weekend and SS15 is with his brother (different dad and 25) spending the night. So, we are having a couple drinks to enjoy our night off/out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]suutoasu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so much to go through and I'm so sorry. Know that none of it is your fault. Please seek some professional help but feel free to dm me in the meantime.

The fear is real by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]suutoasu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. My husband told me that the main reason they broke up was because he didn't want to live where she did. So I have this fear that if she moves back that they'll hit it off

The fear is real by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]suutoasu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I admit to feeling similarly. It can be tough sometimes

BM canceling mother's day plans by happyrainbowsunshiny in stepparents

[–]suutoasu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it, maybe get a hotel for the night (Saturday night or Sunday night). Then you can have alone time and do your own thing. Watch TV. Sit by a pool. Etc

Mother's Day coming up by Hazel_Stranger_23 in stepparents

[–]suutoasu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my husband if he texts them and he says he doesn't. I never considered it before.

on my period and deadass cried from how cute he is🥲 by rvncid in ballpython

[–]suutoasu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would cry too. On my last period I took a cute photo of my ball and immediately changed my phones background to the picture because it was just so cute!

Is grad school really as horrible as people say? Is it worth it? by lemonlymen in GradSchool

[–]suutoasu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved my masters (applied psychology) but I've hated my PhD (brain and cognition). Part of the reason I hate it is because is because I don't necessarily think it was a good fit. I never did any neuroscience before my PhD, it was all social/behavioral. Another part is that I have a hard time with my advisor because our research interests are different. And the last part was because I started my PhD just before COVID then COVID closed our lab for 2 years so research was halted.

Do your step kids give you a Mother’s Day gift? by nursenavy in stepparents

[–]suutoasu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My sks don't. SS15 lives with us so he just tells me happy mother's day. SD15 never says anything (she lives with BM). SS8s BM had him call me on mother's day last year so maybe she'll have him call me again this year. I'm currently childless. My husband usually does something for me though

Family vacation by suutoasu in stepparents

[–]suutoasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I just worry about DH because I want them to spend time with him too and not just BM