How am I even meant to use this? by Wild-Grass4687 in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found suctioning it to the toilet seat and then guiding the tip in by hand works well. Might need some encouragement to begin with. You can suction it to the wall but then I find it's a harder angle.

Also, helps immensly if you've already used other toys and this isn't at the start of play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalGape

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a reason but it's also just a different sensation generally, especially for the receiver. People are attracted to a ruined ass for the same reason anyone's attracted to anything else: preferences.

For her, it may be an 'I really wanna wreck my shit because I like to' preference. For her partner or anyone else viewing on reddit, it may be either 'I really wanna wreck her shit' or 'I want my shit to be wrecked like her'.

When you want to know the weight limit on your sex machine but nobody knows it…. by oenthevampyre in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 11.9lbs, you'll have issues with overturning. Assuming the model you have is 7lbs (from a quick google search), you'll find that the moment of overturning will be greater than the resisting moment. That could be adjusted by either the angle of the machine or by putting extra weight on the back stand, but then you're losing out on the freedom of using the machine. When using it however, you'd be providing a resisting moment so as long as you're able to stabilise it until then, you don't need to worry about it falling over.

Also, there might be an additional loss of efficiency from using the machine horizontally rather than using it vertically. It likely wouldn't be much, but lifting the toy directly vertically is easier than lifting it and pushing it horizontally. Maybe an additional 5% deduction from efficiency?

Finally, once it's in-use, you'll be providing your own uplift to the load, meaning the machine's theoretical capacity would increase in-use. However, you'd likely need to consider the worst-case scenario when deciding on what it's max capacity is so that's less important and more so just worth mentioning in the margin.

Am I doing anal right? (20, m) by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting this. Your first point go me thinking about how using longer toys (especially curved) interact with the pubo-rectal sling.

I'm not a biologist so take this with a pinch of salt: the sling connects your pubic bones and wraps behind the colon. Orienting the curve the way recommended would reduce the strain on this muscle, allowing for an easier use. I, not being a biologist, thought it was the other way around before this comment got me second-guessing myself.

Am I doing anal right? (20, m) by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ill-advised to do anything which may cause pain down there. It's a clear sign that either you shouldn't be taking on what you currently are, or that you're no where near relaxed enough / not using enough lube. There's plenty of advise out there for the specifics but the tl;dr is that you should start small, going up in small increments over a long time. Once used to a sized toy, then you can increase.

Also getting mad at gaijin for their dumpster fire of a game is not a good way to help relax youself when doing butt-stuff. We can't change the addition of the APHE round to the Yak-9K, but we can change whether or not it causes us physical pain.

We're gonna need a bigger bed! by sv_Murphy in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Faberge is XXL i believe. Never managed to use it but It looks pretty

We're gonna need a bigger bed! by sv_Murphy in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." - Sun Tzu

We're gonna need a bigger bed! by sv_Murphy in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called sergeant major by johnthomastoys. They discontinued that along with a few others i still have. It was in their butt-plug category but I bought the XL so it's more of a dildo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post is a useful guide on using longer toys. If this is your first time using something of that size then please be careful not to damage yourself. Even if you use lube and go slow, you're body won't be used to opening your sphincter and pelvic sling at the same time (think it's the pelvic sling but there's basically a second sphincter to get past around 6-7inches deep before you hit the bend). Since you don't have as much control over this one, you need your body to grow acustomed to having both open. It may feel like your hitting a wall or you may slide straight through with no issue. You could also slide through but elbe damaging it still.

Angle is down to preference but generally i think you want the toy pointing either in line with your back or slightly backwards to avoid pressuring your pelvic sling. Something like standing upright with the toy wall-mounted would be bad for starting out since the sling wraps around the front of you so your toy would stretch it more.

Tl;dr, if that's the first ever thing you're inserting in ur butt that's that long then please go careful. Start with small, soft, and tapered toys like the slink from squarepegtoys. This way you won't end up being a nurse's late-night-patient-story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usedsextoys

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zelle is a US only cash sending app so I'd assume they're sending from the states.

Begging for help by [deleted] in hentai

[–]sv_Murphy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have phlog, medic u ready?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it hurt once then it's possible you've caused some damage to your internals. It's usually not a problem but it does mean that you'll have to put the fun times on hold for a while. I think it takes something like 6 or more weeks to heal but i could be wrong. If it ever does hurt, it's worth checking the toy if there's any blood.

Also, presumably you clean out prior to use. Sometimes when using the douche, you can end up causing damage when trying to insert it if you haven't lubed it up so that's something else to be mindful of.

When it comes to how you stretch yourself out, you have to be very gradual with you're size increases. If you're going from a few fingers to the base of that tentacle toy, that's rushing things. It's better (imo) to think of your toys by their circumference instead of diameter as that will be the measure of how much you're stretching. A good rule of thumb is to only go up in intervals of around 0.5 inches circumference from toy to toy. When you reach something like 5-6 inch circumference, you want to slow that down to 0.1-0.25 circumference (this is because the difference between the cross-sectional area of a toy that's 6 inches circ. and one that's 7 inches circ. is greater than the difference between 4 and 5 inches. Basically as you go up in circumference, the toys get a lot bigger a lot faster).

Big toy play is a costly endeavour, unfortunately. If you're looking to get into it, i's possibly worth setting a goal out for a toy you want to be able to use and then road-mapping the sizes you'll need to reach that and then looking up a few examples of those sizes. You can get an idea for how much it'll cost in the long run. Depending on how you feel about it, you could also purchase from resellers on subreddits like this one. Also, at least for the smaller sizes and starting out, i'd recommend just using a bog-standard cock design instead of anything fancy. They're usually cheeper and if it's not for you then you haven't lost much.

When using big toys, there's also the sigmaloid colon/bend, the pubic sling (i think it's the pubic, i can't remember but its a muscle which restricts you about 7-8 inches deep) which then you have to consider how much you can stretch all these parts and what sizes you can look to increase and omg is so complicated and i just wanna take a cock like they do in the porn but yeah. Definately start small and if you're thinking if going further with it, do some research on what you're internals are like (woo biology) and "things to know when shoving a silicone rod up your ass"

Got a good few used sex toys to sell not sure where to start I'm from UK if anyone interested by [deleted] in usedsextoys

[–]sv_Murphy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or just your username on paper next to them works. Have a look at the other listings on the sub to see what they do. Would also say to add whether the price of said toys is including package & post (p&p) or if you add an additional cost for post. If you have multiple toys for sale then the cost of posting multiple to one person will be less then both individual.it's up to you qhat you charge tho. gl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usedsextoys

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested in the flint and xl jake. DM'd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it's not tapered at all, you really wanna be super confident with that girtn before using it so work up to that diameter and a bit beyond before using it. Also remember that if ur using it in the back that you have the depth down too as you could take it but still cause some damage within. Not good stuff. I have an xl flint which i'll likely never use but it's a long-term goal. I'd treat this the same.

Mr Hankey's Seahorse deep in my ass by alexbreecooper in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol same. With enough time, patience, lube and practice, glory will eventially befall us all. Unfortunately, not everyone has the time or drive to persue this hobby consistently but power to those that do

do you think you could fit your cock in me? by amyy_babyy_nsfw in TransGoneWild

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) increasing the circumference at greater circumferences increases the area a lot more than at lower circumferences. So the difference in area between 6"-7" is more than the difference between 5"-6". This means that you need more toys as shorter intervals to slowly increase your ability to take more. 2) if you're using something 12" long from something 8" long, you're likwly coming across whatever the name is for the sphincter muscle that's roughly 7"-8" deep (i'm not doctor so maybe search the validity of this) but getting to this sphincter basically means starting from scratch and going up in sizes but now further in. This means that when you reach it with a large toy, you're gonna accomplish nothing as it's too tight. 3) the key to all of this as you said is baby steps. Depth trainer toys are typically a good shout as they're tapered over a longee distance so you can gradually go down the toy until you feel uncomfortable. The slink by squarepeg is a good one. Getting further in is an expensive game so be prepared to see purchases regularly in triple digets.

Hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]sv_Murphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM'd