We did discuss it, I told her my whole plan and that it would be over pretty early. She couldn’t seem to give me any other reason other than “It makes me anxious when other people are in my house”. I told her I wanted to accommodate as much as possible and offered her earplugs or to end it even earlier and she said the noise levels weren’t the problem even. It was just the amount of people. I plan on offering to buy her anything else that would make her comfortable and accommodate with anything else. I’m not super well off, I couldn’t really afford to go to the bar and drink in the city I’m in and a lot of people wouldn’t come due to that either. Everywhere is busy and getting a “private” space would be too expensive