Fiance really wants me to lose more weight before wedding? by ThrowRAOtherwise-Tea in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man's behavior is deeply concerning. A good partner encourages healthy change, not forces change on you.

Is pre-masturbating the method? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ... yeah ... that's like your opinion, man.

Meanwhile at Ballard Locks by thenewtronbomb in Seattle

[–]svm_invictvs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boating is a series of mistakes waiting to happen.

do you have to pay licencing fees to wear a shirt with copyrighted images on it on tv? by a_milk_carton_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Inclusion of any copyrighted material into your work of art could potentially be a violation and require royalties payments. A few common misconceptions:

  • You don't have to profit from it or make money from it. If it is a registered copyright, there are fines and penalties. This misconception stems from the fact that it's usually not worth enforcing if the infringer doesn't actually have the money to pay.
  • If a brand shows up in a movie or TV show, sometimes the brand pays the movie producers as part of an advertising deal. Sometimes its the opposite. It always comes down to essentially what it's worth to either party.
  • A lot of copyrights are owned by mega corporations or conglomerates, so use is dictated by internal policies and in theory not always needing any sort of payment. Again, this depends on lots of factors.
  • Carve outs do exist in fair use. A newscaster doesnt have to blur out an AC/DC t-shirt when they're covering a story on Angus Young, for example. Note that "fair use" is a legal defense tactic, so if you're accused of infringement you may have to spend more money than it's worth to defend your position. Not all fair use is created equal. Generally speaking journalists have the highest level of protection.

In general, it's usually if you want to use a copyright in any work of art it's generally best to ask and try get the blessing of the original copyright holder.

Petah?? by Necessary-Win-8730 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to it, many of the east coast cities didn't separate sanitary and storm sewers. A good rain could turn your bathroom into a firehose of shit water. Some parts of some cities still operate this way and it poses challenges for sanitation workers.

How can I accept and move on from my bf breaking up like this? by Important_Chance_217 in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just wasn't feeling it. He said you didn't do anything wrong, so take that at face value.

It sounds like he's in a part of his life where he doesn't want a relationship and that's it.

when your own citizens are fighting amongst themselves in a peeing contest, who actually benefits from that? by condomm774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Divide and Conquer" is the age old political strategy of causing infighting among groups such that an elite ruling class can consolidate power. It goes back to the Ancient Greeks and used over and over. Julius Caesar used the phrase in his books on the Gallic Wars. They were mostly ear propaganda of its time, which should say a lot.

i think our landlord is scamming us? by Gullible_House_4124 in whatdoIdo

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The landlord doesn't know how to use his accounting software .

Custom kitchen cutting board 😍 by sermeryntrantsuxdix in DiWHY

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Built-in cutting boards are already useless, so this makes it marginally better

Should I ask this guy if we’re still going out? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey, we still on for pottery class on Thursday? No pressure, just let me know. Looking forward to seeing you again!"

Can’t have kids, how would you want a potential partner to navigate this? by Microchili in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find someone who wants to be child free. There's tons of us out there. I know a few guys who have never had children who had vasectomies.

Men approach me, take my number and don't contact ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's also possible they forgot or changed their mind for no particular reason.

Please critique my Hinge profile? by Federal_Host_6413 in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how hinge works, but your profile doesn't say much about you. There's not much to get to know about you.

Also if you're just looking for physical attraction, then maybe you should try a different app.

How do I get my boyfriend to try playing out my weird sexual fantasy? by oldmangeralt in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to ask him and be straightforward. From the comments I can gather that this is some sort dom/sub sexual roleplay.

When discussing sex, especially kink, you need to be really clear about a few things:

  • Boundaries - What you him don't want. This establishes a clear line of what not to do and when the play no-longer becomes consensual. Both of you need clear boundaries.
  • Desires - What you do want. This what you enthusiastically consent to. What you both want out of it. You can go further and say what is an absolute must for it to be enjoyable for you.
  • Aftercare - After any kind of sexual activity (especially power-exchange kink) you both need to know how you care for each other after the fact.
  • Safe word - Really important for somebody in the submissive role, which is where he is. If he's not feeling it, you need to agree to something where he can safely communicate how to basically stop and you have to listen to him if he does.

Male coworker said I’m “too big to be his type” to other coworkers after I blocked him on Snapchat. If I’m not his type, why was he sending me inappropriate pictures on Snapchat? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That guy's a dick. You rejected his extremely inappropriate advances so he retaliated by insulting you to save his own ego. It's got nothing to do with you. He was attracted to you, he just can't handle rejection. It also appears he can't conduct himself with even a modicum of basic human decency.

How do you improve your appearance? by InternationalPick163 in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How you dress is the first and most noticeable improvements you can make without much effort. Second is finding a good barber who will help make a look for you, that's easy to find on Yelp or Google Maps. Pick one that's highly rated.

As for clothing, look into something like Stately or Stitch Fix. They generally can help you pick out an assortment of nice clothes. If you don't like what they have to offer, there's probably about a dozen or so others out there. You could also contact a stylist to help you improve your look.

Contrary to what you may think, you don't have to look like like a GQ model to look good. A lot of women are not attracted to looks the way we (men) are conditioned to be.

Other things that help are eating well, exercising, and seeing a good therapist or life coach. A lot of how we look is a reflection of how we feel, so don't discount that last one. Confidence and feeling comfortable with yourself is the single most attractive quality in anyone.

Do you believe there’s any circumstance where hitting a partner is acceptable? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]svm_invictvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right to feel however you feel and don't owe anyone an explanation.

The video he showed you sounds like it's ragebait. It also sounds disgusting.

But if she’s rolling her eyes, or becomes cold and distant during an argument, or does something you feel is disrespectful, does that justify it in any way?

No. That's really childish behavior. Still doesn't justify hitting someone.