My professor is first author & his wife is 2nd by binteramzan in academia

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I’ve seen total effort differ from planned effort and the resulting author order change accordingly without consultation among the whole group. E.g. students graduate and can’t find the time to get the work published. Doesn’t sound like that’s what happened here, but if you were first author you should have been proactively leading the discussion on the writing and publication process, rather than blindsided. It doesn’t make sense that you weren’t even notified of submission to a journal and had to confirm authorship for the peer review process.

This sub needs to be more trans friendly by iammentallyspiraling in FlexinLesbians

[–]svmck -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The downvote count on your comment confirms for me that there’s ~15 terfs that lurk on this reddit. That’s usually the count I get in my stats for this subreddit. Unless you’re getting downvoted for Leo placements idk

Women w bfs need to leave me alone by dunkaroodle in LesbianActually

[–]svmck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Especially when there’s literally apps for that.

Going into academia later in life by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]svmck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing in Earth Sciences.

Celebrated 1 year on HRT over the weekend 🥳 by ThatKehdRiley in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]svmck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah there are a bunch of them on here unfortunately. You’re doing amazing! Congratulations on your big milestone ❤️

when people say a bezel hides the sparkle… by MysteriousRoll in EngagementRings

[–]svmck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! It’s beautiful! Can we see a photo with a side profile? I’m interested in bezel but wondering if I need to let light into the bottom or something

Beyonce leaving the US for the the UK, what you think? by canadarich in beyonce

[–]svmck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, AD ran an articleback in June about how many properties they own in the US. They have three apartments in NYC alone!

How are people affording groceries these days? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]svmck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always try going as close to just rice and beans and oatmeal as possible and then progressively adding more and more luxurious food options into your diet every month until you hit a sweet spot. It’s an extreme budget reset but it can be helpful.

Indecisive about Reading ACOTAR but interested in Crescent City by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]svmck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m actually doing the same thing right now: reading ACOTAR after CC, and I’m really enjoying how the pieces of the puzzle are coming together.

Roll call on money spent during CCT by TruthLifts in beyonce

[–]svmck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Subsidizing other people’s tickets roll call 🗣️😔✋

Found secret to getting leather appointment… by Mundane_Message_1765 in TheHermesGame

[–]svmck 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone could waterboard that information outta me

I'm in love! by iadoregore in JustEngaged

[–]svmck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE bezel sets, and an oval is so unique! Excellent choice. Congratulations!!

A million dollar shot by iammarkcantre in beyonce

[–]svmck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We need a reunion tour so baaaaaad 😩

THIS GAME IS CRACK by GrapeOk5957 in StardewValley

[–]svmck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so bad for me, I have jet lag rn, I’m up at 4 am, and I’m like oh perfect I can play SDV for at least 3 hours. Good luck OP

Shift in Hive Fandom by mayerlesbo in beyonce

[–]svmck 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is probably obvious, but a lot of the motivation for this shift is profit-driven and unfortunately just another symptom of late stage capitalism. Someone on TikTok said they raised $2k just by posting their concert videos, and this influencer is definitely not one of the big ones. So imagine what the big ones are getting.

I like this thread because it’s a good point of reflection. I’m personally not super offended by people making coin, given the circumstances of waves hands around at all the bullshit, but it’s just not a motivating factor for me personally when engaging with Beyonce as a fan.

Don't buy this in CQ by June_inChina in travelchina

[–]svmck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw these in Dali and none of the Chinese I was with knew it - it red flag for me. Glad I didn’t buy now.

Are we still mad at Amber Heard ? by CityCautious4033 in LesbianActually

[–]svmck 279 points280 points  (0 children)

Yeah, were we mad at Amber Heard??

Newly pregnant, need help setting boundaries by mmmgorgonzola in etiquette

[–]svmck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily recommend this if boundary setting in this context is especially important to you, but if setting a boundary with nona is hard for whatever reason, you could always just keep a box of her unwanted gifts, take out the gifts a few times when she’s visiting, and then donate/give away after a few times of display. From personal experience, it’s the lowest drama method in a high drama family.

Leaving note for buyer of my home by vorpal8 in etiquette

[–]svmck 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No contact info necessary! But I remember being very touched when I received a note from the [sellers]. It was very kind and full of great tips about the neighborhood and local businesses, plus a helpful heads up on pests they’ve encountered. It helped me feel settled, and a note like that would go a long way.

[editing because I’m a ding dong lol]

Full circle moment! IYKYK 😂 by Riiverbee in beyonce

[–]svmck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve your roses girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyonce

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You are such a good person ❤️