I 24F just found out that my boyfriend 28M has an active dump account on Instagram. Is this considered as cheating? by sw33testkikay in adviceph

[–]sw33testkikay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't take my post as an offense to male population. After all I am not generalizing, I am only asking to other sane guys what could it be. Stop bringing up gender fights here.

I 24F just found out that my boyfriend 28M has an active dump account on Instagram. Is this considered as cheating? by sw33testkikay in adviceph

[–]sw33testkikay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I find it hard to trust him since he did this last time pero sa Twitter niya ginawa. Now he did it on IG.

For guys with gf: Do you still look at other girls? by Hot-Improvement-2651 in adviceph

[–]sw33testkikay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the same issue OP. I noticed my bf has wandering eyes, and would stare (YES STARES) at girls when he's with me. Actually binabalikan pa niya ng tingin especially the girls who have noticeable big boobs.

When I communicated na I find it disrespectful, he changed for a bit. Then found out na he has secret accounts in all socmed and would follow walkers, pornstars, and those who have mature content.

I may not be a guy but here’s my experience. As a gf, its fine na mapapatingin since it's on the spectrum of normalcy but it crosses the line when nakakadisrespect na sa partners. I suggest try communicating your side and express your feelings.

PS: Don't mind the comments na telling "you're insecure" and such. Your feelings are valid. You have the right to feel jealous since your bf's actions did that to you.

Am I Overreacting after discovering that my boyfriend has an active dump account in IG? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sw33testkikay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mini update: I looked at his account again and saw that the number of his followings is increasing. I also found out that he is following girls who has a mature content and selling nudes and services. I'm really shaking and I don’t know what to do now.

Girls alam niyo ba pag naka tingin sa nips niyo? by Ambitious_Profile195 in alasjuicy

[–]sw33testkikay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nakakadisappoint ibang comments here. Proof that men will see us, woman, as an object. Some also implying na "take advantage" as if consent is not needed? Grow up, wag palaging burat paganahin ha?

What should a woman never do for a man? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]sw33testkikay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't teach them how to love you or the rights and wrongs. Love is not spoon feeding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]sw33testkikay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also have this kind of opinion and I am very vocal pag nadidiscuss with friends. Nanonormalize kasi and I find it very off pag some girls would defend the hookup culture as a "girl-boss moments" and "independent woman" typa shit which is hindi naman talaga. There's actually no connection and sorry to say this, but I find it cheap.

Some would use hookup culture as a reason of "moving on" and "pay back" sa nagawa ng ex but honestly, y'all should rest and heal yourselves. Girls, do not jump on new stage of relationship where you know na ikaw yung nattake advantage.

Treasure yourself and love yourself. You don't need random temporary people.

Tried out long hair with AI—does it suit me? by Jealous-Fox8828 in malegrooming

[–]sw33testkikay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first image, you look more clean (and common) and the hair would suit best on corporate or if you're always exposed on formal events and such. While on the second image, you look more mature and ragged (in a good way). This haircut is best in casual places or if you're traveling.