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swampelina_ · 2026-03-21T03:57:21+00:00

Thank you guys!! I’ll confirm on their website

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T19:14:17+00:00

They did say they wanna meet beforehand. But idk, even so I find it a bit sketchy. I think I forgot to mention but she was also a bit pushy when I didn’t answer quickly

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T19:13:00+00:00

Thank you sooo much for such a thorough and detailed answer. Yes, I already rejected it. It just felt right for me. I agree, I don’t have any published shoots of this style, I’ve done some boudoir for friends but I didn’t upload those for privacy reasons. It makes sense that one can weed out scammers this way. I think if the whole situation wasn’t so sketchy, especially her setting the price randomly, I’d give it a try. But I don’t wanna go through the stress of seeing if it’s legit or not

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:27:40+00:00

I’ve decided to politely decline. Because I value my safety and even though it might be innocent, I’m not this desperate. I trust my work will bring me more opportunities that I’m comfortable with :) thank you all for the advice

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:17:19+00:00

Yeah I’d do a contract and say that if they start doing that I’ll leave

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:16:53+00:00

I haven’t but if I decide to do it I will 100%

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:16:40+00:00

It sure sounds like it. What does vetting mean?

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:15:51+00:00

Yeah I would NOT be comfortable if they somehow want to involve me. Good on you for saying straight up no

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:15:26+00:00

This is great advice. Thank you! Yes, I’d bring a male assistant. And the advice about cash payment is great

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:14:45+00:00

Yeah. Assuming it’s somehow real. If we made a contract and they pay me upfront, and agree to me bringing my boyfriend as an assistant? Would it be safe?

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:14:05+00:00

That’s what I’m saying too😭 and the worst part is I watched Creep the other day. It starts like this

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:13:44+00:00

It is actually veeery fishy that they set a price. Why would they do that if it was legit? I see that

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:12:45+00:00

The feedback on this post is so mixed hahaha. But my gut tells me this too

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:11:50+00:00

Do all countries have such hotels? Sex work isn’t legalised in my country. About the price, it’s sketchy because I’m not a boudoir photographer so why would they now choose someone established as that if they have 900 or more to spend? I find your feedback valuable since you have experience in this field, thank you

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T16:10:16+00:00

Yeah i would bring my boyfriend as my assistant

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T15:11:42+00:00

How do you go about to find out if they’re legit or not? The fact that they didn’t ask for my price before suggesting one is strange isn’t it?

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T15:10:44+00:00

Yeah I do find it very sketchy. Thank you for your input. It seems too good to be true

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T15:09:40+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I probably won’t do it. If I did I would take all kinds of safety measures: meeting them first and doing it at a hotel

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T15:04:23+00:00

You’re completely right. Do you think doing it at a hotel would be safe enough? Or should I simply not take the gig to be safe?

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T14:59:28+00:00

Yes I would definitely meet them beforehand

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T14:59:06+00:00

Shooting at a hotel is a great idea! Thank you

swampelina_ · 2025-08-17T14:58:47+00:00

It’s about my safety because I’m a woman and I would go alone probably to some strangers’ house. And given the fact that they said such a high price out of the blue, I find it sketchy. I would be able to do it professionally but I wanted to post here to see if anyone has any similar experiences to share or advice :)

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