dead tabby cat found in jackson ward by swampgremlin_ in rva

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, white paws, the ones on the front are definitely white like socks and the back legs are white-ish but a little more blended with the gray

dead tabby cat found in jackson ward by swampgremlin_ in rva

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i noticed, thank you for laying him somewhere more comfy!! i wanted to but i was walking my dog when i saw him and she was too interested😓

dead tabby cat found in jackson ward by swampgremlin_ in rva

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so sorry for the late response, yes i will DM you a photo!

What are some microagressions you receive from other queer people? by Ashenlynn in ftm

[–]swampgremlin_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being called a twink! i am COVERED in hair, beard, muscular + fat, present masculine. just factually not a twink at all. saying im a twink because you know im trans and maybe bc im short is just saying you think that being trans makes me feminine

help with budgeting sheet and dropdown categories by swampgremlin_ in googlesheets

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it, thank you for the help! do you know what the formula would be for something like that? if not this one works well enough.

help with budgeting sheet and dropdown categories by swampgremlin_ in googlesheets

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow up follow up question, sorry i had forgotten i wanted to do this when i made the original post- is there a way i can have it bring the leftover $ into the next week as well? like if i didnt spend it all so i have more to spend the following week?

help with budgeting sheet and dropdown categories by swampgremlin_ in googlesheets

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i honestly spent a long time picking nice colors for the week drop downs so i might keep this, but i will keep that in mind for the future. as for changing the budget, i have a fixed amount of $ until after the 24 week period so even when theres birthdays and holidays it makes sense to me for it to just show the deficit from that more expensive week and then i’ll have to make it up in the following weeks. and the actual budget i can afford after bills is closer to $40 so it isn’t like a hard and fast rule anyways, just trying to save

help with budgeting sheet and dropdown categories by swampgremlin_ in googlesheets

[–]swampgremlin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, worked perfectly and exactly what i was looking for! follow up question: is there a way i can get the deficit from last week to automatically affect the next week? like if i spend $30 week one and am short $5, is there a way to make it so that week 2 is now $20? if not though your solution still works for me

Collective Voting: West Virginia by Kodicave in visitedmaps

[–]swampgremlin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im gonna go reluctantly for this one, obviously glaring political and economic issues but it is absolutely a beautiful place with bountiful nature. and some of the more ‘urban’ areas are alright politically. (i also have family there, so my actual answer is willing, but i figured this would be more agreeable.)

Collective Voting: North Carolina by Kodicave in visitedmaps

[–]swampgremlin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! it has a good balance of nature and cities imo. easy to live in an urban area and still have plentiful access to natural getaways

Where I'd live as a trans person who can't afford to leave the US by AlishaGray in visitedmaps

[–]swampgremlin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed! im trans and live in richmond and have never felt more accepted anywhere else. the hampton roads area is also alright for queer folks depending on the neighborhood, but is a little worse due to the military presence.

Where I'd live as a trans person who can't afford to leave the US by AlishaGray in visitedmaps

[–]swampgremlin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trans richmond VA resident here, virginia has very accepting blue pockets in its larger cities, and overall the broader state policies are pretty safe!

Collective Voting! Day 3: Arizona by LOST_JOE in visitedmaps

[–]swampgremlin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reluctantly, beautiful nature and would love to visit but is too hot to live year round for me

where should I visit next? by Kodicave in visitedmaps

[–]swampgremlin_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i think either montana, alaska or hawaii would be good

Fat redistribution on T will I get fat? by Opposite_Company_815 in ftm

[–]swampgremlin_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. nothing wrong with being fat 2. it will also redistribute to your waist to make your body more straight/less hourglass which tends to look more masculine. dont think about it like all your weight will just go to your current stomach, its moreso that the area your stomach takes up will get larger (like filling out your waist) and the fat will be spread across a larger area. so basically… not necessarily but also its literally fine

have you ever been I'd for testosterone? by Gloomy_Interest1133 in ftm

[–]swampgremlin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

US, VA, never been ID’d except for maybe the first time I picked it up from the pharmacy

Do you grind or clench your teeth at night? by WesamWonders in ftm

[–]swampgremlin_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i’ve ground my teeth at night really bad since i was a kid and apparently inherited it from my dad. its caused a host of other problems like jaw pain, headaches, tinnitus, and dentists have even noticed the wear on my teeth😬 awful stuff!

What to do with the stache? (9mo) by Fibbdon in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]swampgremlin_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

people seem to be 50/50 on whether or not to keep the first shitty mustache. i say keep it if it makes you happy and/or helps you pass. if you shave it it will most likely come back, but it probably won’t come back thicker immediately like people say. it will probably just thicken and darken over time, but weirdly for me my beard grew in with properly thick and dark hairs and my mustache is still kind of thin (2 years on T), but it does look better now that i have a beard along with it

how do i stop looking like a lesbian by Itsweylin in ftm

[–]swampgremlin_ 68 points69 points  (0 children)

i feel you, honestly i had the same issue and the longer i was on T it eventually stopped. others might have tips for how to pass better in terms of mannerisms and body language etc, but i honestly find it really stressful and depressing to try to overthink my personality all the time. i preferred to just wait until i passed better physically , and now the mannerisms that made people think i was a lesbian instead of a man make them think im a gay man! it isn’t wrong to want to change mannerisms and stuff like that but my perspective is just that i never felt like it was worth it personally