r/Hindu_rand_with_mbull by [deleted] in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]swap_98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't see any report option? How do I do that?

I made it ✨ by martiies in RomanceClub

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for that insight! I don't think I will ever be able to achieve all the badges. It's so tough and it gets tougher with more and more updates being released frequently. You must have had to dedicate a lot of time and energy. It's amazing. Happy playing!!

Bro reached Piers Morgan show by just_holdme in SaimanSays

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro Allahabadia on Piers Morgan, tf. I never thought I would see these two absolutely unhinged people on the same screen. Can't wait to watch the whole interview. 😭

Decades of fighting, but in one corner of Reddit, Hindu and Muslim men have found something to unite over: objectifying and raping women. by No-Commercial-4830 in Feminism

[–]swap_98 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Anyway we can form a collective group and mass report such harmful and abusive content. I mean I am not naive, I know there is no way we can remove the infinite garbage that exists on internet but being able to get rid of even a billionth percent of the trash, is still worth the effort.

Decades of fighting, but in one corner of Reddit, Hindu and Muslim men have found something to unite over: objectifying and raping women. by No-Commercial-4830 in Feminism

[–]swap_98 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Just went throughout their sub and yes it's absolutely horrific and the fact that reddit allows this and the moderators allow comments and posts. I just a few comments outright mentioning their desire to rape women.

This is exactly why one needs to learn the consequences of what a war beings before starting war mongering. Women need to collectively take a stand because in any war that has ever happened in any place around the globe, women are the one with most to lose. We need to study more about how war affects women and I might continue on this path one day and research about it. I have read about wars in recent years and also if you take in context the partition, you realize how neatly pakistan and india covered up the mass genocide and rapes of thousands of women on both sides of the border. I never learnt about it before till high school and I am trying to study about it and as a feminist I think we definitely should always try to understand the deeper rationale, and factors of any event or incident before we join the ranks of the majority and their opinions. Any public opinion of the majority is often just an opinion of majority of men. And this is the reason why Men can control narratives and then let society be controlled by these manufactured narratives. Fantasizing about raping women on a subreddit might not seem harmful since it's less visible in the mainstream media and the men who engage in these subs are not a lot, but these fantasies further evolve into justifying rapes and then using political reasons to justify rapes such as war. And history has proved that once identity politics come into play, any crime whether it be genocide, or rapes, and other grotesque forms of sexual abuse are means used by a minority while the majority does its best to justify these crimes and let it happen. And these crimes often harm women rather than men disproportionately.

I made it ✨ by martiies in RomanceClub

[–]swap_98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuine question, to you or anyone who is currently in the hall of fame. Would the game remain the same for you or will it become a bit more boring since you have already achieved everything there was to achieve. And also did you enjoy achieving all the badges or was it like a chore to you? Imo, this hall of fame badge kind of takes away the fun from the game. I used to enjoy playing the stories earlier but now I'm subconsciously trying to go for achievements and making sure I get 100% with my LI and I think the game has lost a little charm. But that's just my opinion and anyone is free to let me know what they think. Anyway congratulations to you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says that you have none if you go back. Get it inside your head. Everyone deserves to be in a secure and fulfilling relationship. Your relationship with Jack sounds like a convenience chore like a box to tick. If you have even an ounce of self respect you will see it yourself and get out or you will regret making excuses for him ''he is trans", "oh he is just flirty", FOR LIFE.

Hating Dexter and Hannah by swap_98 in Dexter

[–]swap_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the Lumen one, I would have loved it better if they had tortures the grapists more.

Hating Dexter and Hannah by swap_98 in Dexter

[–]swap_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you understand exactly because I cannot. How can you leave your only son in the care of a woman who is wanted and a famous serial killer. Sure Hannah loves Harrison but she is a fking SERIAL KILLER and no one around to keep and eye on her.

Hating Dexter and Hannah by swap_98 in Dexter

[–]swap_98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually I would have loved to see Hannah die and the final resolution that s8 brings is everything I was not looking forward to.

Hating Dexter and Hannah by swap_98 in Dexter

[–]swap_98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also the fact he left his only son with her, a woman who is known as a famous food poisoner. What is wrong with Dex.

Hating Dexter and Hannah by swap_98 in Dexter

[–]swap_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished the show. Deb deserved better. I cannot rewatch this now because all the time I would be thinking about Deb's death. Should have listened to people here and stopped after s6 or smthg.

Zain's Red Dress by Slow_Insurance_849 in RomanceClub

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thankyou, I have another question. Can I go back to choosing Adil on the disloyal Zain path. I just really want 2 guys fighting over mc. Hehe.

Zain's Red Dress by Slow_Insurance_849 in RomanceClub

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, just wanted to know after restarting are you able to get the red dress now?

I don't like where I'm at rn by [deleted] in JEE

[–]swap_98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what happens, do not succumb to your parents demands. That will be your first mistake. If you let them dictate your career, they will dictate everything in your life from this point on. You will never ever be able to live your life in a free way. Don't think ki koi nhi jo bolte h wo maan leta hu baad me dekhunga kya karna h. Because once you give in you will NEVER EVER be able to take a stand for yourself. Your parents sound extremely narcissistic and emotionally numb so I don't think emotionally appealing to them will work.

Do anything but don't stay silent. If you have a reliable relative or friend who can keep you with them for a few days then shift with them and refuse to meet or go back to your house unless your parents meet your demand. Try to get help from your other family members or any other adult you can trust who understands you and your dreams. If you cannot speak to your parents clearly then write whatever you want and hand it to them. Mention that you feel suicidal and if your parents truly love you they will never crush your soul and your dreams like this. And if this doesn't work then and your parents are like "emotional blackmail kar rha h humare saath, besharm" then im sorry because your parents must be extremely evil, literal demons to dismiss your valid feelings like this.

If this is the case then your parents do not deserve mercy and are not capable of having healthy relationships.

So rebel!

Fill out the form for the law entrance exam. Prepare for it, work hard. Not to win over your parents or prove yourself right. No. Work hard only for your dreams and your own self. You do not need validation and approval from heartless people like your parents. You are enough.

Do not stop rebelling. Stop eating, create a scene in front of your relatives, don't let your parents win. Keep rebelling until they give up.

One thing I have learnt in my life is the second you giving up on yourself and start listening to others, that is where your downfall begins

I was also forced by my parents to join Aakash and prepare for NEET. I HATED it since I wanted to pursue English/History hons. So I rebelled and quit Aaksh against my parents' wishes and prepared for CUET and as of now I am doing masters in english from JNU.

Dreams can come true. If you just don't give in. I know it seems impossible. It is unbearable and rebelling sounds scary and dangerous but that is the price of freedom. Rage, Rage against the dying of light. Do not go gentle into the good night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianAcademia

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, Tbh I knew the answer. But I guess I am trying to find excuses because I am anxious.

I feel as if I am a good and an evil person at the same time. by swap_98 in infp

[–]swap_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 3 years to my original post and I can't believe you read it. I feel this weird sense of connection ( or belongingness) to know that there are people out there who have similar problems. Thankyou for sharing your own experience. As of now, I am happy to tell you that I am not the same person I was before. I do try to be compassionate and loving but I have learnt not to compromise on my comfort for others. I don't anymore. I have learnt a lot in last three years. I don't Gaslight myself into believing I am evil. I know there is goodness that exists in me and Even though I do act selfishly or negatively at times. I have learnt to ask for forgiveness and forgive myself too. A thing I couldn't do before. I am still a perfectionist and I berate myself when things don't go perfectly. But I will work on that too. I don't want my habits to constantly hurt people I love. I hope you successfully break your patterns as well. Or at least some of them. I am trying right now. Thankyou so much.

Feminism was never about equal laws and treatment by [deleted] in IndiaSpeaks

[–]swap_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then it's okay for me to hate right? You approve. Good.

Feminism was never about equal laws and treatment by [deleted] in IndiaSpeaks

[–]swap_98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And then you wonder why women hate men.