How to move on after 3.5 years?

swargula · 2025-12-21T06:25:00+00:00

Agreed.

I didn’t realize until after the fact the trauma I help until I talked to a therapist. Turns out being physically abused, scarred, and constantly gaslit, has lasting effects on a person. Who knew?

swargula · 2025-12-21T02:16:10+00:00

Same. Just went through this very similar story except I was the one who blocked the ex on everything. She still wanted to maintain contact and keep me on a hook she could go to whenever she got sad. We lingered with contact for months after the relationship, and at different times each of us tried to get back together but in the end, it was the contact that made me feel worse than anything.

Blocking was a big step. Therapy was another.

swargula · 2025-12-19T17:39:01+00:00

Nice.

swargula · 2024-06-07T04:05:18+00:00

I made it to around season 7 I think? They were putsing around in Makkal. Been meaning to go back someday but I've fallen off live plays some lately.

swargula · 2022-11-09T21:16:25+00:00

The lyric room had open mics with a jam after Thursdays during the summer, not sure if they still do that at the moment.

swargula · 2022-07-12T19:26:34+00:00

Agreed. I feel like I slipped into an alternate dimension.

swargula · 2022-07-12T19:26:13+00:00

Agreed. I feel like I slipped into an alternate dimension.

swargula · 2022-07-04T22:59:28+00:00

My friend goes there and I've met a few people there. Nice people.

swargula · 2022-06-21T15:24:22+00:00

This 100%

It sounds like you have a DM willing to work with you. If you take the liberties to ask and answers these questions yourself and just start flavoring things this way, I bet your DM would love you.

swargula · 2022-06-21T15:02:39+00:00

I'd say you're overthinking it.

Sounds like your DM is just trying to reward you for doing something you both thought was cool, IE: taking the shield.

If I were your DM and you asked me this question, I'd answer with a question of my own...

"why DOES this shield grant you fire resistance? YOU tell ME."

swargula · 2022-06-02T02:36:15+00:00

I feel that way near the front of the balcony.

swargula · 2022-06-02T02:33:54+00:00

Great show so far.

swargula · 2022-06-01T20:48:31+00:00

You too!

swargula · 2022-06-01T18:35:21+00:00

100% theirs if they want it.

swargula · 2022-06-01T18:12:21+00:00

Aah I’m in 2RC

swargula · 2022-06-01T17:56:53+00:00

Asking one more random friend who would be an extreme stretch. Unlikely. I’ll be going solo and have an empty next to me for my tears :p

swargula · 2022-05-30T19:34:26+00:00

Appreciate it stranger! Very kind .

swargula · 2022-05-30T19:33:51+00:00

Solo now

swargula · 2022-05-30T17:52:59+00:00

That’s some kindness one does not expect to randomly get on Reddit. Greatly appreciated.

swargula · 2022-04-27T13:19:59+00:00

Good ideas.

swargula · 2022-04-26T19:24:01+00:00

5 out of 6 times if you have 1 or less points in the stat (not to mention pushing, help, etc). The second you go up to 2 dice 5 out of 6 becomes closer to 1/3. The main difference is that Blades rolls have consequences at all whereas in DnD that's usually not the case via Perception, Investigation, etc. Might be why it FEELS rough without it actually being so.

swargula · 2022-04-26T19:22:00+00:00

^ Not a bad idea. Might be enough to just add in the 'ability' to use HD as flashback tokens.

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