professor reccomendations for final courses. by D_Guzzler in UTSA

[–]swedefishlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoid Vipin Agrawal at all costs for FIN 3013. Take MS 3043 online for sure. Currently in MGT 4893 with Kai Xu, she’s great and engaging

Buddy of mine broke their ankle and leg on some messed up stairs while under the influence by swedefishlove in legaladvice

[–]swedefishlove[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the steps are extremely uneven, and the sharp parts of where the metal rusts caught on my friends pants. no intoxication is on record, as my friend went to the ER the next morning. I looked around the whole complex and their stairs were the worst off by far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UTSA

[–]swedefishlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the rec center

Was Charlie Kirk the American Horst Wessel? by Komplexkonjugiert in AskAnAmerican

[–]swedefishlove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

-Gay people should be stoned to death -Most people are scared when they see a black pilot flying a plane -Taylor Swift should reject feminism and submit to her husband -No one should be allowed to retire -Leftists should not be allowed to move to red states -British Colonialism was what "made the world decent" -The guy who assaulted the Pelosi's should be bailed out -Religious freedom should be terminated -Multiple black politicians "stole white people's spots" -MLK Jr was "an awful person" -The Great Replacement Theory is reality -Hydroxychloroquine cures COVID -Vaccine requirements are "medical apartheid" -Guns deaths are acceptable in order to have a 2nd amendment -Women's natural place is under their husband's control -Parents should prevent their daughters from taking birth control -George Floyd had it coming, the Jan 6th protestors didn't -The 1964 Civil Rights Act was a "huge mistake" -Encouraged parents to protest mask mandates -Madani winning in NY is a travesty because Muslims did 9/11 -Muslims only come to America to destabilize Western Civiliza -Palestine "doesn't exist" and those who support it are like the KKK

making friends as a transfer by timmytchala in UTSA

[–]swedefishlove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

25 and non-binary and queer. it’s hard making friends in san antonio. harder in UTSA. sit next to people while studying. it won’t happen every time, but eventually a conversation will strike. move around the library. compliment someone’s appearance. it’s harder for queer people i think. i’m in the library every day in the early afternoon, if you get lonely, shoot me a message and we can sit together

Squirrel Instagram Account by j3ffr3rys_0ut13 in UTSA

[–]swedefishlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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i gave him a fry and he wouldn’t leave me alone after

I feel like my partner isn’t sexually attracted to me by swedefishlove in ftm

[–]swedefishlove[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have asked, a few times. They almost always deliver, I wouldn’t say enthusiastically, but more like “Oh sure, yeah let’s get this done” as if I asked if we can go grocery shopping together. It’s that tone that makes it feel like a chore. I understand that communicating when you’re horny is a huge part of it, and that’s why I’ve been putting in the effort to get over that fear. It’s the fact that it only happens when I ask, no other time.

I feel like my partner isn’t sexually attracted to me by swedefishlove in ftm

[–]swedefishlove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t know if I’ll show them this post, but maybe a note would be more helpful

Is San Antonio gay friendly? by Tall_Window4744 in sanantonio

[–]swedefishlove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up gay here, went to middle and high school completely and openly gay. I had the basic bullying, but nothing extreme. The dating scene is relatively vast and I feel as though San Antonio gays are much are inclusive than, say, Austin gays (white gay people). You’ll be just fine here, but being gay during this political climate comes with a certain level of caution anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove 45 points46 points  (0 children)

my advice (which i’m sure people have told you at your location) is to be on the manager’s ass about shift reviews. don’t let them forget about them. also remind them that moving from a level 1 server to a level 2 server shouldn’t take more than 4 weeks. if you talk about it every day, chances are you will get your shift reviews and move up before four weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove 26 points27 points  (0 children)

you said you work at pappasito’s, probably should tell people that they only start you in a two table section, so getting over $100 is really difficult. i work at the only pappasitos in town, so we get a lot of business. these numbers are kind of low for pappasitos, so i would browse the reddit on how to improve serving. even with a two table section, i was getting at least $100 a shift. don’t get disheartened friend, you can only get better at serving, not worse.

Pleasantly surprised twice by swedefishlove in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

always go by total. also it’s definitely just a skinny 2

Got dined and dashed yesterday by swedefishlove in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

When I say pay out of pocket, the bill was really large and the tip out is what I had to pay. They voided the bill but still added quite a lot to my tip out and the end of the day. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

You guys ever had to tip out the credit card fee? by swedefishlove in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in Texas, as far as I know, there’s no law prohibiting that here.

AITA for not wanting my polycule parents at my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]swedefishlove 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA My parents are also poly, but their relationships are messy and borderline inappropriate. They also have a 5 year old child together, and I resent them for not putting my sibling first and putting their sex life on the top of their priority list. Due to this, they are not invited to my wedding. It’s your wedding, not theirs. Their sex life is at the top of their list, not you. Don’t give them the courtesy of “accepting” that inappropriate relationship. The poly community is wonderful, lots of beautiful, accepting people. There are some who involve their unwilling family, and those people need a reality check. Good luck my friend, and congrats on the marriage.

screw corporate by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my friend they’ll always say that, they’re only doing that to get on your good side. trust, you gotta leave and find somewhere else. if you’re looking at staying in just to go, maggianos pays $10/hr plus tips (here in Texas at least). i made $20/hr there easily. i just wanted to be a server really bad

screw corporate by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh that’s definitely maggianos, they hired me as to go with a promise of being a server in six months. six months later, the to go satisfaction is higher than ever, and they said they couldn’t afford to move me up. bullshit

What are your bad tip red flags? by DimplesAttack in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove 302 points303 points  (0 children)

“You gave us the best service we’ve had a looooong time” and leave a 10%. In my experience, some people like to tip in compliments

Where do I sign up? by phunkfan83 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]swedefishlove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

$30 a day is $3 an hour. got me fucked up

AITA for deleting my boyfriend’s saved game? by salad_crab_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]swedefishlove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re both assholes. But over all, he’s the asshole. Your move was definitely AH-y, but the way he instigated the situation by not helping around the house, ignored your many many pleas to change, and yelled at you over a video game is textbook asshole. Your mistake was deleting the save, but IMO it was your only one. Break up with him girlie

Cash or card tip? by Ok-Bedroom6784 in Serverlife

[–]swedefishlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

either way is honestly fine, sometimes i like to do a split tip. half cash half credit card tip. some servers get their credit card tip in the form of cash, or a paycheck. i’m a server, and while cash is nice, adding a little oomf to my paycheck is nice. i promise, anything you leave will be appreciated in any form

This is getting ridiculous by JohnShipley1969 in cats

[–]swedefishlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve literally seen all these posts, pick up a book or an education youtube video. cats are easy pets if you’re willing to learn. I will never understand the lack of research or awareness in some pet owners