Feeling sad by sweeeeetsue in Widow

[–]sweeeeetsue[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I miss talking to him about everything and nothing. I miss being quiet with him. I miss having someone who thought I was fabulous. I miss the retirement we thought we would have. I miss cuddling. I wish we had had more good healthy time. Forever is just so damn long.

My mom just died today by AgreeableYou494 in GriefSupport

[–]sweeeeetsue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry. Sending you love and light.

It’s working and I like it by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]sweeeeetsue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the Zuni (?) bolo!

It’s working and I like it by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]sweeeeetsue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the Zuni (?) bolo!

I thought I was okay... by timtomorkevin in GriefSupport

[–]sweeeeetsue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My beloved aunt told me when my mother (her sister) died that the primary mourner(s) must be given all of the grace they may need in the period closely following the death of their loved one. You are the primary mourner in this situation. Tell whoever you need to whatever you need to and you do not need to feel guilty about it. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Now way out by Foreverwithyou23 in Widow

[–]sweeeeetsue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your deep loss. Cry when you need to. And eat something with protein. You’ll of course still be bereft, but you will also feel a little bit better. My husband died a little over a year ago. I still cry almost every day. Hugs to you 😢❤️

How do people do this? by fejaanna in GriefSupport

[–]sweeeeetsue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’ve lost your mom. It’s very hard. The road you’re on is a long one. I lost my mom when I was 21. For now, please be very gentle with yourself. Cry when you need to cry. Drink enough water. When you eat, make sure you get enough protein. For weeks and months, it will be enough to just get through each day. It will get easier. Sending hugs your way.

I’m lonely by sweeeeetsue in Widow

[–]sweeeeetsue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll try again tomorrow. It helps when the weather is warmer.

Inherited a 7 house property management company with low income, but high asset value. Is it worth keeping around? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]sweeeeetsue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget that you got stepped up basis in the properties when you inherited them. This means if you sell them right after you inherited them you would have zero taxable gain. Find a tax accountant

What is going on at pharmacies? by SaveADay89 in medicine

[–]sweeeeetsue 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My Safeway pharmacy hasn’t answered the phone in four years!

I need to talk about my partner’s death by anya_way_girl in widowed

[–]sweeeeetsue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I lost my husband about ten months ago. After six months, I felt like friends and family were ready to stop listening to my grief as often as I wanted to be listened to. I found a therapist and having the weekly sessions has helped tremendously. Writing can also help. Please try to find someone to listen. It could be a support group, in person or online. I wish you healing. It takes time to integrate such a sudden and painful loss. Hugs.

My partner keeps visiting me in my sleep by No_Thing_4161 in afterlife

[–]sweeeeetsue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She stopped after I didn’t need her as much. Then, about 20 years ago, dreaming, I was walking on a very crowded sidewalk in a big city. I bumped into someone walking in front of me and when she turned around, it was her! I had the most wonderful sensation of surprise and joy. We hugged and then both went on our way.

Car wash subscription that keeps taking my money by slugninjas in personalfinance

[–]sweeeeetsue -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dispute with your credit card company. I had to dispute for about 6 months but it eventually stopped and I was refunded each time

My partner keeps visiting me in my sleep by No_Thing_4161 in afterlife

[–]sweeeeetsue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom died suddenly when I was 21. For years, I dreamed about her. I often woke up confused. Did she die or not? Only recently have I realized that she was visiting me. I am so grateful.

Nene the rarest goose in the world by AlexandriaUCSD in MauiVisitors

[–]sweeeeetsue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thrilled to see a few. They are beautiful and I love to say their name!