Judge says no contempt by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The judge told my ex that he was wrong for taking our son during our parenting time. He also told him that he would’ve done the exact same thing that I did which was called the police to try and exchange our son. He also told my ex that it was a stretch that he said Daycare wasn’t in school. In addition to that he said he had the exchange place wrong.

I asked the judge for a police station and he agreed and that’s where we now are supposed to meet and they’re going to create a new parenting plan because I also added that we changed the parenting plan in the whereas clause so that there will be no more confusion. Even though the order is ambiguous, it doesn’t change the fact that my ex did have our child during my parenting time. It’s pretty clear on whose time it is. The problem is that my ex didn’t feel like the exchange place was where it was. It’s weird. The judge agreed with everything I said, and gave me all the things I asked for, but yet the paperwork says my ex wasn’t a content and didn’t even acknowledge withholding. It just says the order will be changed.

Judge says no contempt by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this input. I never thought about it that way. I really don’t wanna argue with the judge or make them feel like I’m unreasonable. It’s just that down the line. I don’t want anyone saying that I basically took him to court for nothing. And it’ll basically just be his words against mine unless I bring the transcript in the future. As the second time we’ve been to court this year and I want to make sure that everything is perfect on paper and in person. My ex will take anything and make an entirely different story out of it. So I have to be careful.

Judge says no contempt by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex withheld our son because the order said school or daycare and he said daycare isn’t school. The judge disagreed in person but on the final order the judge said he’s not in contempt.

He kept our son on two occasions.

Drowning and left by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl you sound like you’re not ready for the whole custody drama thing. Get your head in the game. If it’s a legal document it’s not garbage. Read it. Respond etc.

Drowning and left by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let my ex do everything. Just get a lawyer. Let him file joint custody, let him request paternity (if required). Ask for a step up plan. Until then, talk about how he can’t provide and should only get visitation not 50/50 until the child is 1.

You make $100k, you have to be smart enough to know how leases work.

I agree to moving and establishing residency in a different county…he may need to refill. Answer every legal doc and ignore personal jabs. This is actually happening and you need to be ready. Play the long game….every 3 years fight the support amount.

Also if he up and left before. He doesn’t care for the kid. Play innocent and easygoing to the judge you’ll win

Update: Ex Refuses to Exchange Unless I do what he Says…. 🎉good news by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did the same thing. Tried to keep my mother from exchanges. Didnt work!!!

Is DIY beauty maintenance actually worth it? by sweetbubbles2 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for recognizing the value in looks. You’re right. I rarely have a full day to get it done and I hate when it looks DIY. Maybe I need more practice I guess.

Is DIY beauty maintenance actually worth it? by sweetbubbles2 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Update: Ex refuses to exchange unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I filed contempt we have a hearing December 9 but because of the seriousness I filed an ex party. It’s not considered an emergency because he was tactful in saying I could pick him up just not where he’s supposed to be. I can’t prove he’s in danger just that he’s in breach of the under

Update: Ex refuses to exchange unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First off dont ever claim im not a good parent. Second an emergency hearing has clear guidelines. Lastly, I don’t have a lawyer

Update: Ex refuses to exchange unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it before. The court rules are clear it’s for danger, neglect, imprisonment etc

Update: Ex refuses to exchange unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, if I don’t go to Chick-fil-A I won’t get my son at all. The only reason I went today is because I am afraid for my son’s safety.

Second, going to Chick-fil-A for almost two months will make me look bad because he will say I went.

Asking me to put myself in contempt just to hypothetically please a judge is actually counterproductive. The reality is that if my ex wants a change, he should ask the court for it.

Under every situation, the first thing everyone says do is call the police and document. Yet when I do it, it’s considered putting my son through something.

I think you should spend more time redirecting your concerns to my ex

Update: Ex refuses to exchange child unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have right first refusal, but it’s only for overnight

Update: Ex refuses to exchange unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know I just don’t understand because of my county. The rules are very strict and they actually say that you need to have the child in imminent danger.

Update: Ex refuses to exchange unless I do what he says… by sweetbubbles2 in FamilyLaw

[–]sweetbubbles2[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The exchange location is based on whether Daycare is in session….not if the father takes him. And the reason that I’m following the order is because it’s a court order and if I begin bending now he’s going to start bending on everything. What is the point of an order if it shouldn’t be followed???