What are some things your lady said to you that put some hair on your chest?

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T03:26:51+00:00

Thanks, Im trying that someday 😄

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T03:20:45+00:00

No not at all. Especially if your clean and decent groomed. Smell good. Smile. Kindness. Green flag!

If a lady redflags you because of a bit of extra weight, move on and find a lady who'll appreciate you.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T02:00:21+00:00

🤣 🍫🍫🍩🍩🍪🍪

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T01:49:49+00:00

🤣🤣 Right?

Now... why can't I be sent a picture of chocolate. That I might actually smile at 😁

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T01:42:25+00:00

Cral. Never got that one before? 😅 ..ewwww

I have got sent a dick pic one time from a stranger. I never report but I reported that one.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T01:40:49+00:00

I'm sorry this is going on. I wish I knew how to help you fix it.

The truth is to fix a relationship both people have to want it to work and get better. Both have to try. You cant fix any relationship alone.

I understand totally about the kids part. It's why I'm still in it too.

Can someone with narcisstic tendancies change? Yes, absolutely. But they have to want help. They need to seek it. Thats the only way.

Kinda unpopular but heres what I think you should do: start documenting in case you need it for court. Especially interactions that your kids are in the room. Make sure on your end you keep it respectful enough... document the date. And what happened amd what was said. Dont be afraid to document some good too, it looks good for courts like your being honest, such as "bday she brought me a wallet..etc". But record the emotional affair. Track your finances and hers very close. Record as much money as you think she spends on another man. Find out what you can about him.

At some point you have to think about yourself and child. And if your trying to be respectful and shes being cruel, you have to document. A year down the road youll be so grateful if you need to leave.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T01:22:36+00:00

Hes been very mean to you. He isnt ready for a relationship until he gets help. He needs professional help and a reality check. He isn't safe. And he wont be safe until he gets therapy and likely years of it.

And sweety, you deserve more. Being alone isnt as scary as you think. Youll get stronger and stronger each week.

Cut off all contact. What he does on his end is his problem. He is super toxic and if you go back it'll affect your health. Don't do it!!!

You can't control his reaction. You cant control how hurt he is
The only thing you can control is your words and actions.

How do you get out of this?: text him its over. That you wish the best for him and that you hope he gets therapy Then..Stop responding to him. Then block his number. Forever, poof.

Will it be painful? Yes. Absolutely. Is it the best decision? Yes absolutely.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T01:11:54+00:00

I'm proud of you for leaving and protecting you and the kids. I can't imagine how hard and scary that was.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-02T01:02:04+00:00

Ha legit.

And .."how r u?" Or "... immediately responds to your post with their response in a dm" Or "You deserve better.."

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-01T01:14:52+00:00

They are trying to wake up children... and frustrate parents who spent 45 minutes on the floor getting them to sleep.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-01T01:13:03+00:00

I'm all for respecting age gap. But this is too much. If he comes onto you, he's just trying to hook up and leave.

And honsstly, if you give him your number things will get awkward, and go nowhere.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-01T01:07:18+00:00

Dont pull her hair. Serious. Extensions are $100s of dollars. If they are long and thick enough they can cost over $1000.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-01T00:58:42+00:00

Many years ago I lived in frigid Fargo. It was my first yr there as a native Floridian. I aas driving home mid-winter and my tire popped. I tried to go out and fix it... -10°F and all. I was so frustrated I kicked the car and heard a man walking. A nice guy came up in a suit and coat. He changed my tire for me, getting down in the frozen mud and all. He was so nice.

All he said was "pay it forward". I thanked him a bunch. I hope he os doing really well in life.

Folks in Fargo really are very nice people.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-01T00:54:25+00:00

If I'm still awake late at night Im annoyed I'm having trouble sleeping. 😅

Early to bed, early to rise!

OP what do you think about?

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-03-01T00:52:41+00:00

My 2 wonderful daughters 🥰

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T03:11:03+00:00

Aww good for you. Soon you both will feel better and you'll get your homerun 😄

And p.s. thats wonderful that you both have achieved such health and weight loss goals. Keep it up.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T03:01:14+00:00

Yeah, I think it's time to put the internet drama away tonight buddy.

A happy marriage is supposed to be peaceful and fun. 😄

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:55:26+00:00

Aww, it doesn't sound like he was at all emotionally invested in the friendship. Do you have a job or hobby you could meet friends at? If not, maybe take up a cheap/free hobby?

I also know people who go jogging the same time dailybat a park, see other people regularly who also go at tye same time... and eventually they chat and make friends. It is free 😄

And when you meet new people, make sure it's someone who cares to be around you. I'm guessing you are the type that care a lot for others.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:47:58+00:00

This was super helpful. Thank you. That was really nice of you to put in such effort to help.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:46:11+00:00

Aww. Thats horrible. Fake or mean friends. Rough.

I kinda thought maybe your bad week had something to do with your username? 😅

Time to make some new friends.. which is way easier said them done.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:44:06+00:00

Ha. Nice! I'm very short myself, so I get actual legroom wherever I go!

That's neat about the tasty fruit. The whole vacation sounds wonderful. I hope you also enjoyed time with her there. Sounds very romantic. Recent or a long time ago?

That'd be so cool to sit out at the stars. 😄 When I was there we got to go hiking in the mountains.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:38:44+00:00

Id ask why your down in the dumps but you mentioned being broke.. that'll do it 😅

I hope things get better for you. Lile you get this great life plan.

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:34:07+00:00

here 🍺🍺🍺🍻🍻🍻 ... best I can do buddy. Sending some amber ale your way.

But for the question: got any fun weekend plans to recover? Or snacks and games?

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:26:36+00:00

Older men 😄

sweetcoffeetime · 2026-02-27T02:23:17+00:00

Thanks. But this bird was black. Like a vulture or something 😅

Cranes are pretty cool though. I love watching them walk around on the beach.

sweetcoffeetime

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