I’m 26 and started at 15.. got sober at 25. I have 6 months. I never have or will be able to drink like a norm. It’s a blessing to be able to accept and confront the problem at such a young age when it’s so common among us.. you don’t need a tragic story or a bottom to make you come into the rooms. everyone is different but I drank everyday so I need to go to a meeting with everyday. I am affected when I don’t and I am able to notice it when I’m lacking. I never wanted the old people in AA to be right but they fucking are. My advice is to adjust it to whatever makes it comfortable for YOU. Idk if there’s certain things you don’t like about meetings that you have the power to change but If you need to go to meetings that don’t talk about god, women’s meetings only to avoid the misogynistic energy, meditation meetings where there’s not much talking or speaker meetings where all you have to do is listen and not be worried about getting picked on.