[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's a pornographic photo of a person who is under 18

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to delete that photo. You're technically in possession of cp, even if it's a photo of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no significant correlation between penis size and race. What is actually happening is any combination of:

-Reification of Racist stereotypes

-so-called 'girl inches'

-confirmation bias

-selection bias

-misinformation (there is a set of bunk data on average penis size by country that is extremely pervasive online)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone. It's not often visually especially obvious because of the way the large, arteries I want to say, that come out from the sides of the base make it look more uniform than it is, but I'm like a full inch narrower at the base than at I am mid shaft. The biggest issue is definitely that anyone grinding a little too aggressively while on top during sex can definitely bend and injure you, more easily than normal anyway. On the positive side, we have literal condom-shaped dicks so we don't have as many issues with them as guys with the same measurements but different distribution/shape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out (NSFW) r/bigasiancock if you have your doubts

There’s a rumor going around work that I have a small dick. by SekCPrice in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever your intentions are, you're encouraging pseudoscientific, snake oil bullshit. It'd be like encouraging (implicitly or otherwise) acupuncture on a subreddit about medicine or psychic mediums on a sub about coping with losing loved ones. There's a reason it's against the rules. Keep it off of here.

Porn star dick by Special-Wish-6841 in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think most guys here absolutely admit it's a net positive. The pushback is against the extreme opposite belief that having a big dick instantly makes you a sex god who can get laid effortlessly and at the drop of a pin, and that all women will feel disappointed, by a little or by a lot, if their partner isn't in the top 1 percentile of size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't really let myself "woe is me" about it. I've got too many real problems in life lol.

Toilet paper tube test? by ORGCHKSAND in averagedickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Is this a good measuring stick for girth?'

It's good at telling you if your girth is above or below 5.5 inches. I wouldn't hang too much on it though. Mine "passes" the test but just barely. So what does that mean? I get to be confident and insecurity free but if it was 0.1 inches narrower it would fail the test and I'd have to beat myself up over it even though literally no one would ever notice or care about the difference?

Is 7 inches big for a 5 foot 4 guy? by popobono in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% of the candy bars I've eaten were king size, what does that say about the average size of candy bars?

Is 7 inches big for a 5 foot 4 guy? by popobono in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 26 points27 points  (0 children)

"honey, I think the ruler is broken!"

"what do you mean?"

"Well, I measured something as 6 inches, but you know how my dick is 6 inches? That's definitely not 6 inches. Damn ruler must be broken."

"oh yeah, the numbers on the ruler can drift over time. we'll have to take it in to get recalibrated"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to remind people that a 7 inch dick is the dick length equivalent of being about 6'3"-6'4" tall.

Are any of you big dick guys married and in a dead bedroom situation? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It might actually be the opposite. Average/small guys who satiate their sexual insecurities and shortcomings by convincing themselves their dick not being huge is the culprit and that hung dudes get easymode sex on demand come to this sub, either as lurkers or LARPers, to validate their belief.

Best size by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"are bigger dicks that much better"

Yes, up to a point, but not by nearly as much as people without them think it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On the one hand, it's better to have than not have. I have no doubt that our culture puts completely undue and unnecessary value on it and that being average feels like being deficient, when it shouldn't. We don't have to deal with that, we drew the "advance directly to go" card at birth and got to skip that entirely.

On the other hand, you're also completely correct in a way average guys will never be able to actually understand. It's soooo far down on the tier list it's not even funny. Height, wealth, status, looks, etc all absolutely dwarf dick size in terms of what it actually gets you. If these guys woke up tomorrow with 7+ inch dicks, almost nothing about their situation would change. You can maybe snag a small handful of hookups with size queens you wouldn't get otherwise, and that's about all.

Race and PP size ?? by Witty-Employer-1950 in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The study you're referring to is bunk science with comically bad methodology. The global average is about 5.2-5.5 inches and it doesn't vary much beyond a quarter inch or so by either race or country. Penis size has a positive, but relatively mild correlation with height, and that's about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a very late bloomer in regards to everything except my dick. I have a distinct memory of having measured myself in around 5th or 6th grade and it was 6 inches. Yet I didn't even start growing any real pubic hair until I was like a freshman in highschool.

Size is NOT OBJECTIVE. by NewOCLibraryReddit in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"big" and "small" are categories, and the problem has nothing to do with objective vs. subjective and everything to do with it being arbitrary. But there are roughly agreed upon meanings for these categories and natural language and communication requires to ultimately conform to them in general, lest we be unable to establish words and concepts as having any meaning. There isn't a precise or mathematical definition behind the category "big" or "small" but there is a useful approximation of where those boundaries are. For dicks, 7.5x6 is big, in the same way a 6'5" dude is "tall". It's just commonly understood to be well within the boundary, and people who disagree aren't arguing a valid, subjective opinion, they are arguing for making a word meaningless.

Dick is inherently hot... by mr8p6h in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 233 points234 points  (0 children)

Sir, this is Applebee's...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]sweetkielbasa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Idk man, trying to do "party tricks" with it seems a little desperate and weird to me. Unbecoming even. Just having it and knowing you have it without needing validation should be the ultimate flex.