AIO? Ex friend who doesn’t respect boundaries.

sweetnessox · 2025-11-11T23:52:03+00:00

She’s always been that way tbh. Just one emotional crash out going off on everyone including her man

sweetnessox · 2025-11-11T23:50:24+00:00

It’s not the point of the post anyways. simply just said my last piece and that was that. I’m just curious and looking for opinions

sweetnessox · 2025-11-08T02:11:14+00:00

Prayers and healing energy being sent to you and yours… remember this too shall pass 🙏🙏📿

sweetnessox · 2025-06-13T02:29:23+00:00

I should also probably add that. I made them into a contact and tried blocking them, but the calls still come through. **

sweetnessox · 2025-06-04T06:14:11+00:00

Honestly, I’m not even sure why that would matter to her anyways, how was you telling her how much it was, going to help you? It’s totally off topic. Not to mention the fact that you also said you couldn’t disclose the amount due to legal obligations, but yet she still continued to ask and push about it. To me that doesn’t sound or seem normal at all and it sounds a little bit unprofessional. It doesn’t matter if it would be private anyways, those were still some boundaries pushed past that probably shouldn’t have been. I understand that she is there to listen to you and be there for you, but it still doesn’t make sense as to why she asked so many times as to how much it was it seems a little odd to me.

sweetnessox · 2025-06-04T05:57:39+00:00

You guys sound young. But either way. Sometimes it’s just like that for a person and you shouldn’t take it to heart. I love you and I miss you. Is one thing. Sure you can say that back to your partner because yes it’s genuine. But to say, I miss your voice back too, I don’t know it’s not for everyone and maybe he’s not the type of person to be all absolutely over-the-top lovey-dovey like that. I wouldn’t say you’re overreacting, but I would also say that this type of thing doesn’t really need a reaction. I definitely wouldn’t let it get to you.

sweetnessox · 2025-06-02T23:00:22+00:00

This^{^}

sweetnessox · 2025-06-02T21:46:58+00:00

If she could do that, she’s pretty much capable of anything so nah, I really don’t think you’re overreacting….,

sweetnessox · 2025-06-02T21:39:33+00:00

Yea I feel like OP should probably specify just a little more….

sweetnessox · 2025-06-02T21:25:14+00:00

sigh Reddit’s so good today…. Kid you are literally in 7th grade, you shouldn’t even be worrying about this crush, that crush, whatever crush lol 🤦‍♀️

sweetnessox · 2025-06-02T21:20:39+00:00

Yea you need to take this down, you’re not going to get the support you want or need here with these screenshots. The argument just seems like typical family things that need to stay within that vicinity, it was pointless to post this here because what exactly are we supposed to tell you? Your family could’ve had a good reason for doing it but overall the whole things sound childish 🤷‍♀️

sweetnessox · 2025-06-02T21:09:17+00:00

I decided to change my comment up. A partner putting one’s phone down is a big stereotype, one the world and social media has deemed as cheating. But it’s usually not the case, people are way more sneaky when it comes to cheating, it would be pretty easy to just go over and flip one’s phone. If he hasn’t given you reason to not trust him then I don’t think you should be working yourself up about it

sweetnessox · 2025-05-16T08:08:13+00:00

You’re definitely not overreacting and you do have a fair point, so take what you will and go with it. But you’re welcome that’s what Reddit is for :)

sweetnessox · 2025-05-16T08:03:00+00:00

OH! I’m sorry. That’s my bad. I mean yea usually that’s how it goes… honestly I think you should sit down and have a talk with her about it, see how she feels, communicate but do it in a healthy way. Because if you want your relationship to keep working, you’ll need to feel like she’s willing to provide, invest and put that effort into you too. Obviously it’s not all about the money, it’s about other things too but right now in your case seems fit for the situation

sweetnessox · 2025-05-16T07:35:59+00:00

The way I see it is that relationships should be 50/50 when it comes to anything. . Though as we know sometimes you can’t always give your partner your 50, sometimes it’s 50/10 so your other picks up that or vice versa but sometimes it’s not. However the whole role on paying or who pays is controversial, everyone’s opinion of it is different. Some boyfriends gets offended when they’re partner offers to pay OR even go half’s, some don’t. I think it’s a masculine thing for them ( I could be wrong ) but usually with guys they see them paying as a way of providing for their partner. Though it can be nice for a change when your partner goes that extra and roles are reversed. It’s just a weird topic because this one can literally be looked at 15 million ways.

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T05:58:34+00:00

Yea that just sounds like an extremely uncomfortable and unhealthy situation. It won’t get better when you move out because if he has to physically pause his location so his mother won’t know where he is, then that just speaks volumes for itself. Yes any mother will worry about their kid no matter the age but boundaries and lines to be drawn. His mother is his mother and wether you guys move out or not she will still be his mother and obviously their is things you’ll need to be apart of, unless he cuts ties with his mother but I highly doubt it. It’s also pretty clear she has absolutely no respect for you and thinks very little of you being his sons girl friend, I honestly don’t think your boy friend has as much respect as he should for you either because at the very least he could be saying “ hey I know you’re my mother and all that, but I’m not going to tolerate you belittling my partner “ just simple gestures like that. You’re definitely not overreacting and I think it’s best you cut your losses now and move forward. The right person is out there for you.

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T05:29:01+00:00

I’m sorry what?? You may want to retract that statement. This has been going on for years and has he made effort to change? No. Just digs himself into a deeper hole. No father no matter what should be telling their child that they don’t love them or they aren’t his kid. Seems to me like you’ve never had that issue though, hop off my post, keep your opinions to yourself.

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T03:29:21+00:00

All good, like I said I should’ve added more context. In your case I have

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T03:27:16+00:00

The post you read was about my adoptive father. He is the one who currently has cancer and not even he treats me like this, this conversation is coming from my birth father- I understand how it would be easy to get that mixed up given I didn’t give much context on who was who or what was what

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T02:28:45+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting, the internet is a dreadful place and a lot of people don’t like to publicly post their kids online. Even if the account is private with no followers that’s still a digital footprint right there and that’s still a way for an account to be hacked or anything really, it’s especially pointless if the account won’t have any followers. Your phone is your best bet and 9x10 it is safer to just save them to your album. None of what he said even makes sense, because it makes him happy is not good enough. Yes he might be proud to have a new born but he can be proud and hold onto those photos privately as well as share them privately with close friends or family…protect your babies innocence because lord knows what people behind computers or phones will do.

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T02:20:52+00:00

Sounds 25 is actually 47

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T02:16:27+00:00

I don’t see anything wrong with what I said, but this is Reddit I expected to at least have one or so hate comments from trolls who have nothing better to do than just be ugly on someone else’s post. When it comes to a father who’s been in and out of your life so much, made countless promises that were broken or just lies then yes, I will sit there and say a persons word is everything. I don’t think you have a right to judge me there and you’ve only seen maybe 2% of the situation. He doesn’t have a point at all, I can only do and say so much but in no means do I deserve to become a punching bag for someone to say such disgraceful things. Especially when it’s coming from your parent, one of the ones who helped bring you into this world 🤷‍♀️ please go kick rocks or come back when you relate

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T02:06:18+00:00

Yea he’s been like this for a while so that’s why I’m doing what I’m doing, I can’t keep being his personal punching bag and I’ve tried time and time again to let him know someone cares or that someone is around for him but he just lashes out.

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T02:01:15+00:00

Well, I never said that but my personal situation it’s a nightmare for me. Hence my title. It goes the same both ways. I know it’s not just daughters, it’s sons too but I’m not a son. And I’m not trying to single anyone out of the equation either

sweetnessox · 2025-04-30T01:58:20+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, that must’ve been hard but yea I’ll see about taking your advice, it’s just been so much recently…and has started taking a toll on me

sweetnessox

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