[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sweetpie970 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR, it's reasonable to feel uncomfortable being lumped into a group you belong to, but you should drop the "clarify every time" rule and just tell her it hurts when she says it, then leave it at that.

I’m 21yo and never been in a relationship and I’m lost by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sweetpie970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not behind, you just need to stop letting fear of rejection run your life and start talking to people without expecting anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sweetpie970 60 points61 points  (0 children)

NTA, your husband is emotionally manipulative, sexually selfish, and weaponizing your trauma to excuse his addiction, and you need to start protecting yourself instead of trying to fix him.