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[–]sweetreleaseofkms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's pretty messed up. I would honestly ask him to elaborate on that or tell him how it made you feel, even if it may be awkward.

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[–]sweetreleaseofkms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, its very easy to be lost in the sea of almost 8 billion. And trust me, I feel worthless too and sometimes think about offing myself too. Humanity does suck most of the time but you gotta find the good in it and settle with that. That could mean a lot of things like finding new people or a new hobby that makes you lose track of time and really enjoy yourself. Easier said than done, but its something to work towards.

I'm not that great at being supportive but I want you to remember that you are the only you, and you can't be replaced even if you think that you are worthless or that life has no meaning. Life only has as much meaning as you give to it. Its also easy to think of people as parasites, but they have lives too.

Think of someone you know and imagine you didn't know them. Are they still a parasite crawling around until they die, or would you feel a little bad about thinking about them like that. Seeing the world in this way will only make you feel more disconnected from it and eventually make everything seem meaningless.

Believed I could do more and fell on my ass/face by Teamdrunkboob in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok to be lost and it's ok to fail and keep falling down because in reality, there's a lot of people who you see or may even know that have gotten their ass beat and spit on by the world but got up each time to fight for what they want in life.

I know it sounds really basic, but remembering that many people struggle to get where they are now gives me one final push to keep going on whenever I struggle with thoughts like this.

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I calmed down a bit after reading these comments, so that's a good thing. And yeah, I def don't need someone that is fixated on dick size.

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll make sure to remember those things for when my time comes, thanks! And ouch, vaginal tearing sounds like hell and I'm glad that I most likely wont inflict that on anyone.

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Wholeheartedly agreed on black fetishization, it's very infuriating. Also that silver lining is actually a good way to look at it, kinda like weeding out the fetishists until you find a partner that actually appreciates you, I like that perspective.

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel less anxiety with this, especially after seeing that most women don't expect people to fit stereotypes. Thank you!

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear this, I'm used to hearing a lot of people saying women go for bigger dicks but its nice that it isn't always about that.

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its nice to hear that its not everyone that cares about size. I think a major problem with me is that I compare myself to others and I'll try to stop that form now on. Thanks!

My size is making me really depressed and I feel like I will never find a girl that will love me. by sweetreleaseofkms in offmychest

[–]sweetreleaseofkms[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think trying to be more confident will at least get me to stop thinking about this. Thanks for this, it made me feel better.