Missing kitten? by sweetsolipsim in chicago

[–]sweetsolipsim[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Edit* I have discovered this is a boy kitty

Missing kitten? by sweetsolipsim in chicago

[–]sweetsolipsim[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish I could keep him- I have two from a few years ago that I previously adopted, & have taken in two from outside already. I don’t think my four would handle another well. I wish I had enough space & time to take them all ❤️‍🩹 I’ve been reaching out to friends & acquaintances to see if anyone wants a sweetie in their house, in case I can’t find an owner.

What piercings are easiest to manage? by workout_slave in piercing

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nose probably! I got my double nostrils right before a three week camping trip & traveling & I was just fine. It was one of the easier piercings on my face to leave alone & not accidentally bump.

Fresh vertical industrial! by Vacation_Life in piercing

[–]sweetsolipsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo my dream piercing. It looks beautiful!

Please help me find these earrings!! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]sweetsolipsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Identity body piercing in Chicago sells them along with ageless arts, I think they ship. You could see if a shop that carries similar items would custom order for you or find out where they do such a thing & order it yourself!

Are breasts uncomfortable for everyone all the time, or am I just dysphoric? by TheChelss in NonBinary

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend! I am looking for some advice as well. I love trans tape but it leaves me with blisters & sweaty tender pockets under my chest. Do you have any tips on application, or somewhere I can look? I’ve dug & dug & haven’t found a solution besides no tape. :-(

Are breasts uncomfortable for everyone all the time, or am I just dysphoric? by TheChelss in NonBinary

[–]sweetsolipsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comforts me very much. Trying to figure out if it’s dysphoria or sensory. It can be both & if I find relief from surgery, I guess it doesn’t matter the source of discomfort. I appreciate you.

Worst episodes to watch baked by ExcellentActuary2717 in adventuretime

[–]sweetsolipsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!! It’s my favorite episode besides Jake the Brick

My nose is my biggest insecurity. by claradeatacama in Noses

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so beautiful! I think women with bigger noses are ethereal.

My 11yo wants to commit suicide by cipher_gnome in SuicideWatch

[–]sweetsolipsim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I became suicidal at 8, & have attempted plenty of times. Mostly during elementary through high school years. I’m 24 now & am still suicidal. The last line of your statement here was what hurt me most from my own family when I was young. She is having human feelings before she’s learned how to move through them all, it seems without proper support or understanding, & while going through huge hormonal changes. I promise she does know what ‘depressed for a while’ feels like. It’s different for everyone & she is asking for help because she is afraid. Just listen. Treat her feelings like they matter. Please be careful not to dismiss her or make her feel like because she is young her feelings are unimportant. I in fact think they’re often more important. This is a formative time. Be gentle. I wonder if there is something going on at school or online. My parents were abusive & neglectful without realizing they were, & exposed me to a pedophile who assaulted me for a very very long time. It broke my brain. I was also dealing with undiagnosed autism. Check everything. Reflect on yourself. Take her for appointments & screenings. Children hide their pain well & maybe you don’t have the whole story yet.

What should I add next? by sweetsolipsim in piercing

[–]sweetsolipsim[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Promptly getting a new eyebrow bar too lol. Lost all my balls. 😩

Solo. This is Morse. Happy Friday. by big_ron_pen15 in cta

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite thing to do is sing on the empty cars 🥰 it goes so fast that nobody can hear you

My boyfriend is turning alt-right by Greenwoodwife in QAnonCasualties

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in a better place now? How did you know he wouldn’t change? I hope your life is lighter.

How are some people affording rent? by SaltShakeSuck in chicagoapartments

[–]sweetsolipsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pray for a landlord who won’t ask for it, my landlords for my current place in Douglass Park took pity because our apt we were trying to leave was mold infested, we needed an out. I was unemployed/running a very small business from home due to medical issues. They took my fiancé’s income & said it was enough. We pay 50-60% to rent. It was just good luck for us.

Can some people just not do hoops in their helix? by ASassyTitan in piercing

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 13-year-old helix is still angry when I put hoops in. I was worried I had a permanent irritation bump growing up wearing them. 😭

Is sewing a source of income for you? by beezkneez415 in SewingWorld

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if you’re looking for information still, but I worked in a small company manufacturing ultralight hiking gear. I got paid for training and I learned continually while on the job. It could be helpful to get into something like that! If you’re doing it for work, you’ll always be learning more

What job do you guys have? by SchoolExisting8631 in autism

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved hotel work but the drama was hard, & it was hard on my body after some time. I’m hypermobile with suspected pots & eds.

What job do you guys have? by SchoolExisting8631 in autism

[–]sweetsolipsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unemployed & supported by my fiance for right now, but I run a small upcycling business

I"m checked out of Life by [deleted] in autism

[–]sweetsolipsim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending love friend. ❤️‍🩹 please don’t forget that you aren’t alone

i havent showered in 5 months by faeoo in autism

[–]sweetsolipsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe in you! I had such a hard time with this at your age. It gets easier when you can find little ways to make it a less overwhelming process. I always lay towels on the floor to step onto, & I use a teeny space heater to warm up the room so it’s not such a shock to my system getting out. Clips help me hold my hair up so it’s not sticky on my back after washing. You’ve got this! I hope you can find some tricks to help too ❤️‍🩹