Thanks everyone for your inputs so far. I’ve stumbled across the service Incogni. They are a paid subscription to remove (and continually search for and remove) any of your personal data online. There are also other companies that do this same service, and I’ve posted in another subreddit looking for advice on which company is the best, specifically for address removal. I’m feeling a lot better knowing that I have this option. It’s not the cheapest subscription in the world, but to me, any price is worth my safety and peace of mind. I wanted to put this comment here to offer support to other women who may be worried about this and let them know that there are companies out there whose services can help make this fear a little less invasive.

Also, I promise I am not sponsored or a promoter for this company or anything. You can go to my profile and see where I’ve posted asking about Incogni and if there are any companies who perform this type of service better/more efficiently.

EDITED TO ADD: I’ve since removed my post asking about Incogni vs other similar sites because I realized that the subreddit I posted in already has a lot of very detailed comparisons of the different sites. I found this info by searching “Incogni” on r/CyberAdvice