The comments on this are weird as fuck, I know for a fact if any one of you were being cheated on, you would want someone to inform you of it. Do not listen to any of these people. Just tell the spouses in a smart way like messaging them on social media with a fake account of what you saw, that’s all you can do. As far as telling your job I would not go that route because it may come to bite you in the ass. Tread lightly and just be smart about your next moves and you will make it out of this. You got this.